lol... cool beans.. one reason I think I like agressive men in bed, is because I like agressive men in relationships, I don't want a man who will let me walk all over them, I've been with men like that, it's a huge turn off. I end up not having any respect for them.
Exactly! For me, being submissive isn't about sexual fetish--something that's "fun" to do. It's the way I live my life, and it's the way that I want, and need, to be loved. I don't think I could spend one hour with a guy who would let me walk all over him.
I know.. right.. I dated this guy that would jump up and run to the kitchen if I was thirsty or buy me anything I wanted and I absolutely hated it after awhile.. I'd push to see how far he'd go.. I lost all respect. I was like damn it tell me no for once.. be a man.. grow some balls..
Well.. My boyfriend and i have sex like that all the time.. and when he pulls my hair.. it makes it soo sexy..Actually I prefer that over regular sex.................. Being Rough.. Is very hott... Becky
Oh, that's so fucking hot. I love that too... not every single time but as a nice spicy kick, incredibly hot stuff
I'm shy and submissive towards attractive women that I don't know very well. However.. if I know you (and I do get to know people pretty quickly) I'm more than willing to change that around, especially if they seem to be enjoying bossing me around. EDIT: Incidentally, I scored a 22.
I scored.... 7 No lie. I got 7% submissiveness! I really prefer both partners to be strong...but if i had to choose, id be in charge. Because i know id make a good job of it. I suppose i just see sex differently...its powerful, but not about power. And the thought of being "tied up and vulnerable" just frightens me...nothing more. The thought of my boyfriend being tied up makes me want to go and give him a hug and assure him hell never be in danger. Xx