It's a couple of years for me. But my wife has health problems which seem to have totally finished off any libido she may have had. We talked it through and I've accepted that the situation's unlikely to change, so I just jerk off regularly to relieve the pressure. She knows I do it and accepts it. Otherwise our relationship is fine, and we've been together for 30 years.
Baby's doing better now - he was teething - and I actually got a tongue kiss and some snuggles today, so we'll see how things go. I also have a guy I used to work with interested in me, so maybe the possibility of me getting some nooky somewhere else will get him interested in me again. Thanks guys for your help!
We had sex! Twice in two days. I know that doesn't sound like a lot, but that's a big deal for us. Yay us!