What would you prefer? Girl A -Never complains about everything -Shy -never says what she wants -doesn't have strong opinions -Educated -Extremely good manners -trustworthy and reliable -Oddly enough born on same day and year(lol) -classy Girl B -Strong opinions -Says what she wants -Clever -Nymph -Alot of male friends -Not sure I could trust her? -bit of a bogan -I work with her:\ It seems like 2 extremes to me. Girl B seems like her whole life revolves around sex, and doesn't really have any long terms plans. She says she doesn't have many female friends because girls are bitchy and jealous(*shrug*). I do like her alot, and she is a fun sort of person you can be around and bitch about things with, and isn't scared to tell you what she wants. Girl A is very much shy, and is very reserved. She is happy to do anything, but never wants to make a desicion(I forgot how to spell that) about anything. she reminds me of my mother in some ways, like she would let people trample over her, rather than telling them to get fucked. I wish she would just have a nice logn whinge about something she can't stand. Because of this, it can get pretty boring. But I still like her, because of her trustworthiness, class, manners and the fact that she doesn't talk like an occa, like girl B Apart from a few things, girl A and I have very similar personalities. And the similarities I can see making a potential relationship boring. Girl B has a lot of qualities that I dislike, but the relationship would possibly be more interesting. I worry that she'd just go have sex with all her male friends, and sometimes I wonder why she is interested in me seeing as she's been in like tonnes of relationships and has had sex with like 10 people, whereas I've been in 0 relationships and have had sex once(lol). I'm such a tard sometimes, I always seem to screw things up when chicks show interest, always leave it too late. This is why I tend not to bother these days, just be a robot and not give a shit about anyone.
See if you can open up Girl A. Get her to do some reckless things or at least try and make her more assertive. Its easier and often safer to untame someone than to tame someone like Girl B. But after all's said and done, let your instincts guide you. And if they fail you, you always have a daisy to pluck pedals from.
i think im in the middle.. in some cases shy in some cases i say whatever i think then from time to time must be really nympoho as well.. so i guess i m from time to time the mixture of two gurls yer mentioning here..
I say wait until you find someone EXACTLY like what you're looking for. And if you don't know what you're looking for...don't date anyone until you DO know. Just my opinion.
^^^ exactly! being caught between two choices doesn't actually almost mean you have to choose between them... a third option, which might be the right option, could come knockin' any time Besides, to be honest, neither of those two choices sound that great to me. Someone who doesn't have a spine, or someone think might totally fuck around on you... if it were me, pass on both and wait for the right person
I'd put them both in a cloning machine and create the perfect woman. (Har har, just kidding. We all know that only men can be perfect. )
Thanks for the replies. I've thought it over and probably just go out with both and see how it goes Haha Hikaru, I had thought of that too
Seeing as how it'd end up the same way, I'd prefer to fuck like a champ while I could. Therefore A, or B, whatever one the nymph was.
neither sound right. why is it only between these two girls? meet somone new. I know how you feel though for the past year it's always in my head been between two guys the one who would be the safe choice, take care of me love me ect and one who I was very attracted to and had great chemistry with and appeared to be perfect for me but could be the coldest person in the world at times. The second one turned out to be an abusive commitment phobic jerk and I hung out with the first one to kind of try and heal my wounds fron the damage the second one did to me and I realized the first one is kind of boring and I'm not attracted to him enough to have a relationship with him so I am meeting and trying new people. Why settle on somone it's not going to work with? You're selling yourself short being with somone who isn't perfect for you or somone who you are afraid won't treat you right.
