Woman-on-top sex advice?

"Do you think it is possible for the guy to hit the girl's cervix in some positions--another source of pain?"

Hey hun. I wouldn't think so, but if you have some crazy monster cock, then maybe? haha. It probably is possible actually. I have no idea about that one. Sorry

"I am sorry, I didn't get this. Can you elaborate, plzzz? (do you mean when she's in pain she's fully concentrated on her pain and can't help but totally expose herself, no akwardness toward me, because pain is her paramount concern?)"

Yeah, I'm sorry that wasn't explained very well. What I mean is if she walks around naked infront of you and she doesn't cover herself up then chances are she is in pain during sex because shes comfortable with her weight infront of you. Do you get what I'm saying? If she really is in pain and shes not hiding her body from you then she isn't insecure, shes just...well, in pain.


"Wow, you know what, I read just the opposite I think on the marriagebed site. It said married couples are discouraged from masturbation because it can diminish their willingness to have sex and if you masturbate, you gotta tell your partner about this because if he/she doesn't know and he/she wants sex but you don't becuase you had..."


Yeah, a lot of women and men feel they need to compete with the naked chick or dude on the screen. People feel insecure or jealous about porn because a lot of those people are very attractive, plus they are really really comfortable with their bodies. It could be unhealthy for a marriege or relationship with masturbation involved, but personally if im in a relationship i want the other person to masturbate. I can give myself an orgasm like nobodies' business, better than anyone else can give me. If someone else can do this too i don't want to be selfish and hold that back. Plus I have this thing for the human body (not that im weird, and it isn't even really a sexual thing....well okay, 50% of it is..heheh) and i admire it so much. Thats just me though. You know, my last partner and I would look at porn together, and masturbate together and that did wonders for our relationship.

" dont think she'd like even the mentioning of it,lol. Considering how tight her vagina is, I imagine anal would be insurmountable. Mind you, we haven't even had oral because she tends to think of sex as strictly intercourse and I never brought the issue up so far."


Anal hurts the first 1000 times, but after you guys get this riding thing down you should most def try it.. I've had orgasms from it several times---and they are really good. heh.

"We do practice sex in that position and, yes, it IS very enjoyable for both of us. Just before she has an orgasm she gets a strong urge to pee (she always tells me this when she does, lol) and I've read those are G-spot related orgasms...Although, I've never stuck my finger deep enough in her to locate and feel her G-spot; I somehow have this fear that I might hurt her. Otherwise, yes, that position is very pleasurable for BOTH partners, at least that's what we found."


You should try to finger her and find it. Its only like 2 inches down in the vagina. If you try to rub it a few times her body will open up to it and she'll effin -love- it. Hope this helps!

Positive Vibes-
Alicia

 

Nope, I have a normal size cock actually lol but I've read on some anatomy site, I can't remember, that a normal size cock like 6" fully erect can reach the cervix, just the tip of the cockhead can hit the opening to the cervix...Well, it does hurt Erica if I am fully in her while having doggy sex and if this happens she can't continue to be aroused enough to the point of cumming; so I use this trick: I don't thrust in her hard enough until she's close to an orgasm. When she reaches that "point of no return" I switch to really deep and hard thrusting and she can't help cumming, lol...I guess it hurts her even more but hopefully pleasure should counterbalance some of that pain and sex is also about lil pain, right, so I don't really feel guilt out of it. Would you in my place?

Clear. Thanks for clarifying this!

Yes, I fully understand. Since we are still new to each other in the sex dept, I guess I don't think of masturbating all that often, but think (in fact I am sure) that when we are seasoned enough and the first excitement from sex wears off, I will masturbate from time to time; I have absolutely no moral qualms about masturbating, certainly it's a good, healthy thing, but I will definitely communicate that to my partner and perhaps we'll have some sessions of mutual masturbatin too, lol.

What are those orgasms like, do those orgasms feel different from vaginal orgasms from a girls perspective?

Yeah, I def didn't go that far during foreplay, somehow I have this weird fear I can tear something inside her, I mean the cock is bigger but...cock is meant to be there...anyway, I most def will one of these days. Erica is afraid she might actually get the sheets wet during G-spot orgasm. I keep reassuraing her that wanting to pee during this time is only an illusion..she never did that..and I hope I am telling her the truth, but I'm not sure. Is it possible to really pee during this?lol (Sorry if I sound unethical. Apologies.) One more Q, how would you know you hit the G-spot? Many thanks.

 

yes, absolutely. Doggy too rough, and girl on top if he ends up thrusting a lot are two that would hurt me a lot with my last partner. I'd tell him it hurt and he didn't stop though... hence him now being an ex. He was larger than average but not huge (a little more than 7" by his own measure) but he didn't know how to handle himself

I think masturbation is a great thing. It increases blood flow to the genitals, increases horniness and desire. If I don't masturbate for a while, I feel no desire to. If I masturbate fairly regularly, I feel the urge to do so regularly. Sort of a peculiar cycle. Masturbation is GOOD for ya!

 

I see. No, I don't do that and certainly won't do that. When we are having sex and she makes a noise other than usual pleasure/just-a-lil-pain related moan, I'd slow down and wisper: honey, did I hurt you, are you in pain...if she tells me be gentle I might stop for a sec and kiss her.. The thing is when she's close to an orgasm, she gets even tighter (I can litterally feel that if I stop for a sec and pay attention) and so no matter how slow I go she moans even more and quivers alot but she's in pleasure at the same time so I only do deep thrusting while in doggy when she's cumming and not before and she can bear that lil pain at the end before she's completely spent. Some of her orgasms are really intense sometimes she screams in pleasure when I do that to her.

Well I came to this day by masturbating fairly regularly as well and I loved it totally every moment of it and I still do. Sometimes when we watch some softcore movie on the cable I start stroking myself a lil but then we switch to sex..I think I will masturbate one of these days or have her masturbate me. That's for sure.

 

Updating on my love line and seeking some advice...Yesterday was a disaster.. I somehow decided that it was time that Erica and I experimented a bit with our sex life; I somehow assumed (in retrospect, wrongly) that we have had enough intercourse experience by now and Erica is relaxed. So, we had very little foreplay--so I decided--becuase I wanted to experience sex with her when she's not as ready as she is after some major foreplay involving lots of frenchkissing and some fingering; I thought to myself, lets see what happens if I am kinda tired and dont have enough energies for a foreplay and want to go straight for sex.

So I decided, let's have no foreplay. What's more, I asked her to lie on her belly, stuck a rough pillow underneath her hips and attempted to enter her from behind. No sooner had I stuck the tip of my hard-on in her almost dry hole and trusted lil..., she screamed in pain, boy it hurt Erica and I was in pain I could feel as well...I persisted and started thrusting and after about 10 thrusts she cried out in obvious pain, "Josh, I can't take it anymore." I stopped, pulled out and we continued in missionary positon.

She was fine with missionary sex but the thing is, I don't know why but I cummed before she did and that only happend the first three or four times when we first started having sex; after those cases, I've always made her cum at least once (often times twice) before I would cum myself; sometimes we would manage to cum together and those are nice moments although I also do like to stay fresh and look at her face when she's in pleasure and cum later; so, I don't really resent when not cumming together. After last night, she was teasing me that she was gonna punish me by reciprocating and not giving me an orgasm next time, lol.

I always wished I could have a tight chick, hehe, but now I wish I could have a lax one. I am kidding. She's great, no complaints...I know some girls can't cum during sex, I imagine how hard that could be on the guy...If I couldn't make Erica cum...I mean...it would suck. Thank God we could do it together.

Anyway, do you girls still find it painful to start in doggy or on the sides and with just a lil advance foreplay even after having sex for many, many months? Is this pain gonna lessen anytime soon and will she get more relaxed most likely?

At least what happened was quite instructive in that we realized we still needed adequate foreplay, then start off in missionary position and then switch to doggy or whatever position we feel like going. I think missionary is unique because it is the only position that we know in which she can be opened up enough (she keeps her legs bent in knees some and quite apart under my body that makes entry easier than in doggy or in spooning pos.)

Yesterday I also tried to stick my finger deep enough in her vagina to locate her G-spot but still couldn't do it. I don't know why but still have that fear I can hurt her, cause it was very tight and I felt like the geography of her inner hole surface was sth like..I dunno, delicate to touch...when you thrust with the cock it feels very different from how it feels with your finger. Also, I couldnt figure out which way to push in, parallel to her tummy or tilted inward at an angle, more toward her back??...She never masturbated in front of me so I have no way of knowing but...if I push in my index or middle finger at its full lenght slowly, is there a chance I can do some damage to her??...yeah, also she uses pads rather than tampons and she told me when she was masturbating she was rubbing her clit and her inner lips from top to bottom at their full length, rather than really sticking her finger in and out.

So, am I gonna hurt her if I go in quite a bit with my finger?

Thanks for reading! Thanks for your opinion/advice!

 

Hey!

"What are those orgasms like, do those orgasms feel different from vaginal orgasms from a girls perspective?"

Oh...they are magical. Much different from vaginal orgasms, although its wonderful when you stimulate the clit during anal....yeah, i need to hush now. haha

"One more Q, how would you know you hit the G-spot? Many thanks"

You probably could pee during that, but i had to get use to gspot orgasms. When you first start with the gspot it always feels like you have to pee. She'll get used to it. You'll know because its sort of like a rough spot on the roof of her vagina as you go in. Just feel for it..

"I've always made her cum at "


It doesn't mean anything if you cum before her. Sometimes when i'm having sex I can cum with a few thrust, or it takes me 6 hours....women are different and our bodies have minds of their own. ha. If you cum before her maybe you could finger her, or eat her out. I love a good oral sex orgasm. It'll drive her -mad-.

"Anyway, do you girls still find it painful to start in doggy or on the sides and with just a lil advance foreplay even after having sex for many, many months? Is this pain gonna lessen anytime soon and will she get more relaxed most likely?"


Its kind of tight, and slightly painful to start out in doggy the first few thrust but after that my vagina warms up to it and gets wet. I dont think this will ever change for any woman. If she just spontanously (that isnt even spelled right, sorry) has sex then her body probably isn't expecting it but a few thrust and she'll get wet and ready. Sorry if that sounded blunt.

"Yesterday I also tried to stick my finger deep enough in her vagina to locate her G-spot but still couldn't do it. I don't know why but still have that fear I can hurt her, cause it was very tight and I felt like the geography of her inner hole surface was sth like..I dunno, delicate to touch.."

I don't want you to take offense to this because it could be a lot of the problem, and im just trying to help, but I think if you get her to relax a lot of you guys's problems will vanish. You aren't going to hurt her with your finger....well, if you just slid it in and out easily. Sometimes when im with someone they get really into it and start slamming their finger in and out of me and ....yowch, espically if im the least bit dry. Maybe you could lay her down and tell her you want to explore her body, touch her vagina inside and out and get to know it..This could be very romantic and turn her on too. Maybe you could even do it with your tongue? She could do the same to you....


If you want to find the gspot go into her vagina with your index finger like you are motioning her to "come here". You know how people use their finger to motion people over? Do that, you'll hit it... Good luck, keep me posted!

 

dude, NEVER skimp on the foreplay. Foreplay is the part that will get most girls closest to orgasming, or make them orgasm. some 60% of women don't orgasm through penetration alone, foreplay is what gets us relaxed, turned on, ready, and close to orgasm. For me, it's more important than intercourse itself.

as for the gspot, it's only about two inches in, it's not like you have to jam you fingers in as deep as possible to find it. Like atom bomb said, use the come here motion after you've inserted a finger or two into her, you should be rubbing the wall closest to the clit.

 

I see. I am intrigued, lol. I see what you mean...hehe.

Rough spot...I'll remember that. Do G-spot orgasms also feel different from vaginal orgasms? More intense in general?

I see, sure. That's reassuring.

Not at all. I also think so; if I persisted I guess she would be able to take it but I chose not to because we are still novices when it comes to sex and she was in pain.. I think I am mastering that warming up/getting wet thing gradually. Later though, I asked her if that pain was any 'good pain' and she said no it just hurt.. If your aren't wet/warmed up enough like you said, and you have sex in doggy, do you feel just sheer pain at the beginning as the guy is entering you from behind and the first few thrusts or do you also like it at the same time? Is it a sheer pain mostly or not?

Yes, I totally agree. I do try to get her to relax and I think she's not afraid of being explored or fears pain ...I usually kiss her stomach and her inner thighs and suck on her nipples, kiss her etc...so she's aroused. I think it's me. When you said "you could lay her down" I just instinctively came up with this idea, what if I lay her on her belly and try to explore/finger her like that, perhaps I could slip my finger in more easily or it doesn't matter?lol. As far as the tongue thing is concerned, I don't think she's ready yet...Yesterday we had quite an ordeal so I'm gonna wait. She'd spank me if I said let alone did that to her, lol. Hey, one question here, even when my face is quite far away from her groin part (like when I play with her nipples with my mouth) I can still feel her vagina smells quite a bit and I was wondering if this is normal? (I am sorry if I sound too blunt here, I am just curious. Sorry.)

Yes, I do. I just measured my index finger it's 3 1/5in and you said earlier its like at 2in depth. So I guess I need to stick in part of my index..sorry not index, middle finger and do "come here" motion. OK.
Thanks!!

I see. NEVER. Ok. 60% ha, I am so glad thats not the case with Erica... 2inches, yes, Atom bomb therapy mentioned that before and the wall closest to the clit, you mean the stomach side, I get it. Thank you.

 

Just checking to see how my sig looks... and question to girls, do you girls get dizzy (lasting a couple minutes) after you cum, and consistently so? And does it make a difference whether you cummed during sex versus masturbating? Thanks!

 

I have something to report that is really, really astonishing and extraordinary. Originally, I thought I would start a new topic but I am posting here anyway.

Emboldened by your advice, girls, yesterday I did manage to lay Erica down, get her relaxed and slide my finger in her far enough to locate her G-spot. It was smallish like a quarter size spot that had a different texture from the rest of her inner surface in that it was a rough spot in about 2 1/5in depth on the wall adjacent to the stomach side. So once located, I started using that 'come here' motion while constantly keeping the tip of my middle finger on her rough spot. Soon after I started doing this to her, she immediatley felt the urge to pee. I kept on going at it, rubbing exclusively what I believe (actually, I am sure) was her G-spot. After about, I'd say, 2 minutes (could have been more) into doing this, she was in obvious pleasure--she started panting, quivering, arching her hips quite a bit.. soon she grabbed my hand and made me stop, saying I "don't want to cum like this"...I said to her: "is it becuase you want to have sex and don't wanna be wasted like that.."she was like Yeah, and I said, "OK, but we aren't gonna repeat this all too often so lets get it through...Aren't you curious what a pure vaginal orgasm feels like? I am?!" So she acquiesced. I continued rubbing her G-spot and felt how her body was getting completley tensed up, she was moaning and panting and arching her hips like crazy...I could feel how tight she was..Even my finger was hurting, to the point that I asked her in the process, "Are those bones or muscles?" I especially meant the entrance to the vagina, it was grasping so tight...

After a minute or two or three, she loosely grabbed my hand with both of her hands; at some points she would really attempt to force it down, at others she would lessen the pressure and let me continue. I kept doing her...rubbing her, real fast and hard...as much as I could...she was now getting really into it...If you know what I mean.. she was REALLY into it. She was breathing like she was just back from a 10-mile marathon run, moaning so so much something out loud, and arching her back and hips ALOT, I could barely contain her anymore. So I moved on top of her body, my face straight at her chin's level and I tucked her hands between our bodies and used my upper legs to fix her lower body, as much as I could. Her G-spot was getting my undivided attention and I kept on rubbing her in full motion. She cried out, "Josh, look at my skin, somethings happening to my skin," she looked at her shoulders, I kept on pumping...and after a short time, she became completely vocal, she was all shaking and trembling and quivering, as you see in moves someone being suffocated. At this point, just looking at her I really got scared. I really did. I thought she could die. I am not kidding. I swear to God I am not embellishing in the least. I mean orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm after all it's pleasure...but this looked something totally unnatural. Her expression her face and her moves just got weird uncontrollable. Even though I was petrified, I was so much curious and eager to please her I didn't stop...aaaaaaaand after a few seconds she just grabbed my hand with both hands forcefully pushed me away from her body both with arms and legs and released her body. She was just lying there as if she was half dead.

She came around in a minute and was looking at me. I was astonished and she was astonished. I said, "what was that? what happened?". She told me she stopped me because she was afraid she could get killed. She said when she was having her eyes closed, she was seeing images that you can see while watching TV with screwed channels, bad reception; that she was hearing a weird sound te-te-te-te-te-te-te-teeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, her body was being electrified and that she just got terrified of all this. I asked if she also was in pleasure and she said it was so intense she has never ever in her entire life experienced anything like that. This is all true and all accurate and my memories are still fresh from it.

Then after a few minutes of rest I got her in doggy and we had sex. When I was thrusting knowing what G-spot felt like on my finger, I was paying attention and could feel it with the tip of cock and I was specifically focusing on that. I am not gonna waste any more space here to say how much pleasure she was in but when she cummed she said it was the best orgasm that she has ever experienced. I asked her whether this orgasm was as intense as that that she could have if she cummed when I was fingering her, she said no that one seemed like 3-4 times as intense.

I mean this was totally amazing. I realize if I ask this question not many will be positive about it, but has anyone on this forum has ever experienced anything like this from G-spot stimulation? that you felt you could die?...like your soul could leave you body. I am very, very curious if one can actually die from this. After that she was kidding with me what were you going to say to my mom if I did die.. I died while having an orgasm. We were laughing then, but back then she was really scared and so I was. I am awaiting your replies guys to see if I can repeat that again and push it through completion. Have you ever heard a young healthy girl actually dying from a G-spot orgasm?

Many thanks!

 

Awe! thats awesome it worked out for you guys. I don't think you could die from an orgasm, and if you could die from an orgasm.....well thats how I want to go out. When she said she could have felt like she could have gotten killed, maybe she was really into it? Im confused. Sometimes when people get caught up in the moment like that they say crazy things. Is it possible that it was so good it made her see shit? If so, thats effin' awesome. You guys are so sweet. Im excited for you. Maybe try the gspot orgasm again and see what happens? Sorry I can't offer more advice.. I'm not sure why she'd feel like she was going to die.

 

Thanks That's exactly what I told her, lol.

There is no question in my mind that she was SO totally into it. But the thing is the way she looked and acted was very very different, not that I'd be paying that much attention to what she could be *saying *. I could SEE it totally.

Yes, we agian tried the G-spot orgasm yesterday but a lil differently. I was fingering her some rubbing her spot, but we didn't go as far as the previous time. When she got strong urges to pee and was in much pleasure, we switched to doggy and I was specifically thrusting her in a way so as to focus on her G-spot with the tip of my cock at the right angle (I put a pillow underneath her hips), I seem to have mastered that. When she was cumming it was way more intense than her previous orgasms when I was just pumping her the usual way. I cummed a few minutes later than she cummed and in the meantime she got fresh and started asking me, how I was feeling and stuff and, boy, I was myself being so much pleasured I couldn't turn my tongue around and I was saying sth really incoherent, she started laughing at me, lol. She still can't deal with her G-spot orgasms while being fingered appropriately, she says they are too intense and she's scared..So, so far we have been doing the second best thing, switching to doggy in the middle when she's aroused enough.

She told me that those G-spot orgasms are way stronger than her other orgasms even from clit stimulation, which are "comparable" to her vaginal orgasms. She also never tried to rub her G-spot on her own.

Do your G-spot orgasms are also stronger than clit? Way stronger? Also, I am curious if you still get dizzy (or got dizzy in your early days) shortly after orgasming. Any mild headaches? (Erica has some mild dizziness/headaches after every orgasm that lasts a few minutes.)
Thanks!

 

Hi Josh,


Personally I think you guys should do whatever feels best to both of you. Again, I think its so awesome that you are so concerned about pleasing her. Shes a very lucky girl. I recormend getting her to tell you what she wants. Let her guide your hand, maybe she likes clit orgasms better? it varies with me. When Im single I like a good old clit orgasm when im in a rush (because I masturbate like a frikin nympho jackrabbit) But at night if im ready for bed, or in the shower i prefer to use a toy and thats usually a gspot orgasm....well...depending on the toy.

I wonder if maybe she thinks the gspot orgasm is way too intense because of the pee feeling. A lot of women don't like gspot orgasms. You could try to rub her clit for a few months and then try the gspot orgasm again? Another thing you guys could do is go out and buy a vibrator. Get the pink pearl rabbit one. I love mine. (Sorry if i sound slutty. ) It comes in various sizes. I have the smaller one. That'll make her love gspot orgasms soon enough.

Do your G-spot orgasms are also stronger than clit? Way stronger? Also, I am curious if you still get dizzy (or got dizzy in your early days) shortly after orgasming. Any mild headaches?"

Way stronger, but in a different way. Sometimes I prefer a good clit orgasm over gspot. They are different for me. I get dizzy through every orgasm, clit and gspot. I never get a headache though. Usually just relaxation, and a good feeling after. Sometimes my ears pop though. haha. Anyways, I hope this helps! Write soon!


Alicia

 

Hi Alicia,

It's nice to hear back from you.

Thanks so much for you kind words.

She seems to be much more comfortable with clitoral orgasms. She also like having her inner lips rubbed from top to bottom and that often involves stimulating her clit in the way.

She told me when I was fingering her G-spot that she was having many different things going on at the same time; she was wanting to pee, it was too intense for her to handle, it was too pleasurable for one girl, she emphasized that pleasure was immense, overwhelming and she felt unearthly.

I will definitely work around her clit for the coming months and occasionally finger her G-spot to get her used to the feeling. We will probably get a vib later on, at this early stage however I'd better explore her with my fingers as I think my fingers are quite versatile lol and she is shy too. By the way, I think bringing a G-spot vib in the shower is a smart thing to do--at least one of your concerns will be removed, lol (I apologize if I sound too nasty).

hehe....I see. I will tell Erica that she's not alone in feeling dizzy after every single orgasm.

So, your best, most intense orgasm was from sex or masturbation?

Many thanks,
Josh

 

Josh -

"She told me when I was fingering her G-spot that she was having many different things going on at the same time; she was wanting to pee, it was too intense for her to handle, it was too pleasurable for one girl, she emphasized that pleasure was immense, overwhelming and she felt unearthly."

If shes shy maybe she wasn't comfortable with it. I wish I could experience an orgasm too pleasurable for one girl. That'd be awesome. Hehe. Since you are her first she may not be very opened minded, or comfortable with it yet. She'll open up to you.

"I think bringing a G-spot vib in the shower is a smart thing to do--at least one of your concerns will be removed, lol (I apologize if I sound too nasty)."


Don't worry about being too nasty, im actually pretty blunt myself. haha. If you get a shower vibrator, get the dolphin. Almost like the rabbit, except water proof. Its good fun.


"So, your best, most intense orgasm was from sex or masturbation?"

My best most intense was the first orgasm I ever had.. Probably age 12 or 13. I remember finding my dads porn, and after looking at all the pictures and being totally confused at all the things I felt. (Being horny,although i didnt know it at the time. Excitment...you know) I ended up masturbating for the first time and I nearly fell off my bed. You know those cheesy sex/love scenes in movies where when someone gets head or whatever and they see fireworks? Yeah, I saw sparks and swirls and i had dizziness and all types of crazy shit. I did it like 5 more times, but nothing was ever as strong as that first wonderful orgasm. Its a shame I'll never feel that again...or will I? Who knows. I have very wonderful orgasms though when I masturbate. They last for like a whole 60 seconds and they are just....crazy. What about you?


xoxo
Alicia

 

Hi Alicia,

Nice to hear from you again.

Yep, she's not yet comfortable with it. Since she hasn't tried varied things in sex she stays complacent after AN orgasm and doesn't get the strong urges to experiment, to stretch the things around the edges, so to speak. My experience is also limited, but I am a guy you know, so I do get the urges and stuff. She is happy with any rope she is provided with, but I expect that to change with time and practice.. I am sure your orgasms are still very, very pleasurable no matter what, lol.

Cool! The dolphin ha, is this one batter operated or not; any pleasure-enhancing ribbed surface?lol

It is funny that you say that. I too remeber my very first orgasm as being the best, most intense and I literally fell off my bed as well lool. At the time I was 13, started growing my pubic hair, hair in my armpits, on my face, and I wasn't comfortable with that at all, lol. I would freqently get hard in my pants and feel tingling down there and one day I just decided to play around with myself. To my great surprise, I was cumming pretty damn soon and it was so intense it made my body curl up for a full 10 seconds that I was feeling intense pleasure. I felt weak and fell asleep after that. I again masturbated a few hours later and it was still good but nothing at the scale of my first one. Prolly first one was the best, lol.

Actually, before we had sex for one year Erica and I would engage in some light foreplay. And the first time she cummed with me(I was rubbing her pubic area from the outside of her black stretchy pants lol) she was very vocal and it was very intense for her, more intense than her later orgasms as far as could tell. I think it proves that the first is the best whether you are a guy or a girl. Now it is her G-spot that looks very intense, and it does seem to be alot more fun, but who knows, even that level of intensity may abate with time. Actually, yesterday before we had sex in doggy I had fingered her G-spot some, and when she was cumming during sex she was majorly intensely pleasured and she said to me, "lets do it the usual way next time, this is too intense" meaning she wanted missionary sex, or doggy where G-spot is not being stimulated. I guess she might have sensory overload, lol and hope she will crave for more intense pleasure after some period of rest hehe.

Actually, not counting my first orgasms from early days, I cum harder during sex now than when I was masturbating; the reasons I imagine being that first, I cant thrust as much so it takes more time for an orgasm to build, I sweat, its tighter and itches more and added pleasure from human flesh lol.

How often do you masturbate now that you abstain from sex and what do you mean by referring to 60-second orgasms? (You mean you can have multiple orgasms in a row...lol)
Can you cum while standing straight up or do you need sth to hold onto..I remember masturbating Erica when she was leaning against the wall and she collapsed when she orgasmed lol.

Josh

 

Afternoon Josh.
How're things? Okay I hope. Hectic here with christmas and all. I just got done putting together my christmas day menu, so im thrilled and excited.

I was reading over your latest post and I think maybe Miss Erica will be more into the g spot orgasms in a few months or a year or two. I wouldn't rush it, although when she finds out what happens when her body gets used to it, she'll be thrilled. Heh.

" I cant thrust as much so it takes more time for an orgasm to build, I sweat, its tighter and itches more and added pleasure from human flesh lol."

Man..I need a boyfriend. haha. Yeah, i agree that sex is a bit better because I like to be in control and being control, but i love masturbation also. I guess I like them both the same but on different levels. Right now I like masturbation more. hahah. but thats okay, maybe it'll change soon.

"How often do you masturbate now that you abstain from sex "

heh. Well... My life is really hectic lately, espically through the holidays. I have a three year old little boy who has to go see his dad, his dad's parents, my dad, and my mom and step dad and ontop of all that everywhere he goes is in a different part of georgia so im constantly driving. I'm staying at home right now because im focusing on trying to get my career going, and my art. My son goes to a montessori school, so I get a few hours during the day to myself. Usually during this time and at night, every night I masturbate. So like 2-4 times a day on a good day. haha

"what do you mean by referring to 60-second orgasms?"

Thats how long they last. Sometimes I'll cum and i'll keep rubbing my clit and it just keeps going and going and going and going..hahhaa, a minute later i'll stop. haha. Im thankful for my orgasms. Yes sirree. I've had multiple orgasms before, but thats usually if I haven't had sex or masturbated in a few days.


"Can you cum while standing straight up or do you need sth to hold onto.."


I can cum standing up, sitting down, laying, standing on my head, any which way..haha. Actually thats weird you brought that up because I just realized the other day that an orgasm standing up is slightly different than laying down. Its almost like my body weight pushes on my clit and makes it slightly more intense... Is that hard to understand? Its explained weird. If I stand up and have an orgasm I have to hold onto a wall, or the shower rod, or prop my leg on something so I don't fall over. Haha.

I made a post a few weeks ago about how to get my orgasms better, and no one really replied but I've been doing my own research with it and I've found that if you hold your breath right before you are about to cum, and then while your cumming push very hard (kind of like trying to poop...sorry.) it makes your orgasms.....beyond words. You should try it, and have Erica try it too...Its beautiful. Write me soon, yes?

Much love-
Alicia

 

Stop talking like that Alicia. It turns me on! HAHA

 

hahha.... You're silly.

 

Hi Alicia,

Nice to hear from you back!

Here we go.

Okidoki lol, I am the most sophisticated sex robot put back in time for one lucky lady...it was just my time, it was just my time, sherminator, lol (American Pie I).
I haven't started christmas preparations yet so I can stay fully focused on pleasing Erica and sex, lol. Miss Erica (so far miss, right;-) will in all probability be very much into full G-spot orgasms when I am able to totally calm her down, get her fully relaxed and when she is intensely horny and anxious and that I suppose will happen sometime next year, lol.

Yeah, you need a man, a good, knowledgeable one and well equipped,lol, and caring, that's for sure. I am sure a girl as nice and good looking as you deserves one by all means and should have little hard time finding one if she really decides. MASTURBATION RULES THOUGH, LOL. Thats how we first discover our sexuality, dont we?

You know when you meet shopping assistants at shopping malls, young cute girls wearing shorts and tank tops or some tight pants and flip-flops, I wish those gals would carry a tag saying "I haven't masturbated/had sex for the last 7 days and I am as horny as you can get, (but you have no chance)" I would sometimes summon their help just to have a word with them and take a look at them, lol, even though I was reserved. That's how I would get great orgasms in my early days thinking about those girls when I would get home. Its different from looking at photos, you know.

I love kids. I think it is terrific to have a child. I imagine your life makes a lot more sense now that you have someone your own to care about, to love and be loved. That's awesome. I'd love to have a child of my own...

Hey, you spend some of your free hours during the day posting on this forum ha. Cool!*wink* . 2-4 times a day sounds quite a good deal around even by guys' standards, lol. For the past 10 years or so that I had been masturbating, barring my early days when I was masturbating a lot more, I did so mostly at night, but now that I have sex I kinda feel I can perform better in the morning because I seem to be able to better control my hard-ons in the morning and they last longer...Although we often have sex at night as well; Erica likes twilights, lol.

Did you use to hump pillows and stuff when you were young?

Wow, can you do that? I am thrilled. I used to stop masturbating for a few days and saved myself for more intense orgasms later on...and boy, I would be cumming so hard.. but that didn't happen all too often because I was too greeeeeeedy, lol
Hey, try not to masturbate for a couple days, put a chastity belt on perhaps, lol. You'll surely get horni-er that way and perhaps a lil wicked?

lol. I've heard standing on one's head is a good position if you want to get pregnant, to let spermies flow into your body....no, its explailned fine. See you still have to hold onto sth or else you'll collapse. That's what happens to Erica, she would collapse in her knees when she is cumming. We've never tried it in the shower though.

Wow, thanks for sharing that. I'll give it a shot, we'll do it together, perhaps. Well, I have a simple rule for that, so nothing to really share...just to save yourself for a coupld of days and then do it *slowly* to let your orgasm mount, *slowlii.* You mentioned poop hehe and this one time when Erica was having major contractions during sex, she was almost cumming, she farted, you know, she was soooo embarrassed, lol. (She never does it in our bed and goes to the bathroom instead.)
Can you stay totally quiet and motionless while cumming when masturbating? (I can, so you wouldn't even notice, lol)

Write back when you get a chance!

Josh

Hey, do you realize this is a private place for the two of us hehe. We can make an exception for Astroglide sponsors, though, LOL