Too intense O from G-spot stimulation, advice needed....

I have something to report that is really, really astonishing and extraordinary. Please read and give advice if you can.

Although I was initially somewhat hesitant, yesterday I did manage to lay my partner down (we have had very limited sex experience and we are first for each other), get her relaxed and slide my finger in her far enough to locate her G-spot. It was smallish like a quarter size spot that had a different texture from the rest of her inner surface in that it was a rough spot in about 2 1/5in depth on the wall adjacent to the stomach side. So once located, I started using that 'come here' motion while constantly keeping the tip of my middle finger on her rough spot. Soon after I started doing this to her, she immediatley felt the urge to pee. I kept on going at it, rubbing exclusively what I believe (actually, I am sure) was her G-spot. After about, I'd say, 2 minutes (could have been more) into doing this, she was in obvious pleasure--she started panting, quivering, arching her hips quite a bit.. soon she grabbed my hand and made me stop, saying I "don't want to cum like this"...I said to her: "is it becuase you want to have sex and don't wanna be wasted like that.."she was like Yeah, and I said, "OK, but we aren't gonna repeat this all too often so lets get it through...Aren't you curious what a pure vaginal orgasm feels like? I am?!" So she acquiesced. I continued rubbing her G-spot and felt how her body was getting completley tensed up, she was moaning and panting and arching her hips like crazy...I could feel how tight she was..Even my finger was hurting, to the point that I asked her in the process, "Are those bones or muscles?" I especially meant the entrance to the vagina, it was grasping so tight...

After a minute or two or three, she loosely grabbed my hand with both of her hands; at some points she would really attempt to force it down, at others she would lessen the pressure and let me continue. I kept doing her...rubbing her, real fast and hard...as much as I could...she was now getting really into it...If you know what I mean.. she was REALLY into it. She was breathing like she was just back from a 10-mile marathon run, moaning so so much something out loud, and arching her back and hips ALOT, I could barely contain her anymore. So I moved on top of her body, my face straight at her chin's level and I tucked her hands between our bodies and used my upper legs to fix her lower body, as much as I could. Her G-spot was getting my undivided attention and I kept on rubbing her in full motion. She cried out, "Josh, look at my skin, somethings happening to my skin," she looked at her shoulders, I kept on pumping...and after a short time, she became completely vocal, she was all shaking and trembling and quivering, as you see in moves someone being suffocated. At this point, just looking at her I really got scared. I really did. I thought she could die. I am not kidding. I swear to God I am not embellishing in the least. I mean orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm after all it's pleasure...but this looked something totally unnatural. Her expression her face and her moves just got weird uncontrollable. Even though I was petrified, I was so much curious and eager to please her I didn't stop...aaaaaaaand after a few seconds she just grabbed my hand with both hands forcefully pushed me away from her body both with arms and legs and released her body. She was just lying there as if she was half dead.

She came around in a minute and was looking at me. I was astonished and she was astonished. I said, "what was that? what happened?". She told me she stopped me because she was afraid she could get killed. She said when she was having her eyes closed, she was seeing images that you can see while watching TV with screwed channels, bad reception; that she was hearing a weird sound te-te-te-te-te-te-te-teeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, her body was being electrified and that she just got terrified of all this. I asked if she also was in pleasure and she said it was so intense she has never ever in her entire life experienced anything like that. This is all true and all accurate and my memories are still fresh from it.

Then after a few minutes of rest I got her in doggy and we had sex. When I was thrusting knowing what G-spot felt like on my finger, I was paying attention and could feel it with the tip of cock and I was specifically focusing on that. I am not gonna waste any more space here to say how much pleasure she was in but when she cummed she said it was the best orgasm that she has ever experienced. I asked her whether this orgasm was as intense as that that she could have if she cummed when I was fingering her, she said no that one seemed like 3-4 times as intense.

I mean this was totally amazing. I realize if I ask this question not many will be positive about it, but has anyone on this forum has ever experienced anything like this from G-spot stimulation? that you felt you could die?...like your soul could leave you body. I am very, very curious if one can actually die from this. After that she was kidding with me what were you going to say to my mom if I did die.. I died while having an orgasm. We were laughing then, but back then she was really scared and so was I. I am awaiting your replies guys to see if I can repeat that again and push it through completion. Have you ever heard a young healthy girl actually dying from a G-spot orgasm?

Many thanks!

 

From some of my partners experiences, g-spot orgasms can be intense. It sometimes takes a while for girls to get used these 'enhanced' sensations. But I have also helped more experienced girls ejaculate and have mulitple orgasms and so on through g-spot play. I do g-spot as a rule on every partner, and the response varies from quicker than normal orgasms through to very big orgasms through to ejaculation or whole-body orgasms.

I hope you try it again, second time around is will be less scary for both of you because you'll know what to expect. Your girlfriend must be special to trust you to do that with her.

 

Have any of those girls been harmed or inflicted any damage at any time, permanent or not in your experience as a result of those intense G-spot orgasms?

Also, would those girls show any unusual signs of enjoyment/tension that an "ordinary" orgasm does not entail (such as skin flushes, excessive panting...)?

Thanks!

 

Dude, that's frickin' awesome. Sounds like she was just having a sensory overload. As Cbrmale said, it'll probably be more doable if you try again.

 

I dont think it can really hurt someone, the first time i found my loves g spot she also had to make me stop, she was shaking, gasping, and ocationally moaning or screaming, i thought it was hurting her but she said it felt good, but it got to be too much. But over time we found if she makes sure to keep breathing deeply and relaxed that she can handle it, and its incredible, usually she arches her entire body off the bed except her head and toes. It seems to be really important that she controlls her breathing, when we do it right she breathes harder and harder but it stays rythmic and turns into a moan and then more of a scream, then as she arches up it clinches down in my finger very very hard as you described, at that point her breathing sounds like a train, I know i keep talking about breathing, but it seems key, if at that point she accidentally lets herself hold her breath from the intensity of it, it seems to short circut her or something and she just shakes and i have to stop. I dont know if theres a limit to how long it can go on for, sometimes we get into this trancelike rythem and she stayes in that deep breathing, moaningstate with a look of ecstacy on her face for maybe 15 minutes, and we keep making it a bit longer. But i think there is a sort of a limit, its extreemly draining, and after one of those really long ones shes asleep and almost unwakeable for 6 to 12 hours. ecspecially if it was already the end of the day. One important note, if you do that, and she passes out, as long as everything seems fine, let her sleep, and maybe have something ready for her to eat when she wakes up to restore her enerygy, like spaghetti, cause she'll be really hungry when she wakes up. But she'll also think your awesome, unless you made her sleep through a class, do that when you have some time, if shes gotta do something in an hour you'll need to wait.

 

Ummm... "Ordinary" orgasms DO entail skin flushes (my whole chest, cheeks, etc are generally bright red if my bf is hitting the right spots), heavy panting (what counts as excessive? She wasn't hyperventilating, was she?), muscle spasms, uncontrollable facial expressions, etc. You clearly did not take her as far as my bf has gotten me (tho that was after multiple such orgasms), when, after sex, all I could do was fall over and pass out. It was that damn good. No, there was no permanent damage, just an amazing amazing sexual experience.

Unless she has heart problems, like an irregular heartbeat or something, I think you have a better chance of winning 100 billion dollars in the lotto AND getting stuck by lightening on the same day than you do of causing irreversible damage through orgasm (but, hey, I'm not a doctor).

It doesn't sound like she's ready for it, but if she lets herself relax, instead of holding back for fear of peeing, she will have an even more intense orgasm. It's not urine, it's female ejaculation. It comes out of the same hole, but is chemically different, smells different, etc. Urine will leave a yellow spot on the bed and smell like urine; ejaculate will be clear, when it dries it will leave a sort of stiff spot like you starched that little section of the sheets, and it will smell kind of sweetly salty (some compare it to clover), very different from a urine smell.

Also, when you're both ready, try just focusing on her to see if she can have multiples -- so set aside lots of time to finger her, with the stipulation that you'd rather have a handjob after getting her off with your finger a couple of times than have sex before she cums. I hate that idea of "is it becuase you want to have sex and don't wanna be wasted like that.." Probably the BEST thing about being a woman is the multiple orgasms -- we're not spent after a single orgasm the way guys are! AND, the first one may take a while, but the second one tends to come quicker, and after that they're just one after another after another!

 

For future reference, how firmly do you finger the g-spot? It is like a soft brushing or a stiff finger or a pushing-a-nail-into-a-wall gung-ho kinda thing? I haven't tried it much, but I'd like to clear this up.

 

Ah, but there ain't no way to clear this up once and for all. It will vary with each woman you are with. Your best bet is to start relatively soft (better to err on the side of no response rather than pain, right!), gauge her reaction as well as you can, and ask her to tell you if you're being too soft or rough, too slow or too fast, a little to the left, etc.

 

When you stimulate the g-spot, you probably start lighter and as your lady gets more aroused, you can increase the pressure and gauge her reacton.

Another little trick is most ladies have their g-spots located vertically if they are laying on their back. But the distance inside varies quite a bit, so the location for one girl doesn't work for all. It can also be off centre, as much as 15 degrees either side of vertical. I know one girl who had many partners before me, none of whom found it until I did about 20 degrees to one side.

It is also easier to find the g-spot if the lady is aroused before you start looking. It seems to get harder and the characteristic cross-hatched ribs are easier to find.