no one is talking but im thinking- give me your opinion kay?

say you have a child hood place
that had allll good memories
took away all bad memories actually

and then one day

something really bad happened there
that kinda ruined it

would you go back there or not?

and if so how would you deal?

 

Yeah I'd go back...either to reminisce or plot...most likely reminisce....

Plotting revenge takes too much out of me lately. It's much easier to chalk assholes as assholes and move on. Live & learn...

 

yer gonna get a quick pm, kay?

 

Whenever I get a chance, I return to places of my childhood.


Why not go back?

Did it ruin your child hood? that particular place? your memories?

 

i went there for 2 weeks to three months every summer... a beach, cabin area... um it was very importantant to me and something criminal happened to me there in aug.

 

I've jumped around too much being an army brat.

I do have bad memories and most of them are in Hawaii. I'd like to keep them there.

 

aaah yes.. neverland ranch.. i remember the sleepovers well

good times

 

depends on how bad the bad thing was. If it's going to taint my memory, well, why not start a new tradition? I'm always a little leery of visiting childhood places, because a bunch of them have been destroyed and it's rather disappointing to see a new development in place of what used to be your favourite grove of trees

 

I liked the sleepovers at Neverland...but it was always so crowded in the daybed...

 

haha twas a funny quote g

 

AHAHAHA DAMN IT.. lmao i spilled my beer

wait.. you were there?

 

tis mean tho peeps

 

for real you have no idea what yer comparing to what...

humor is good but think of how close it could be and if people dont wanna laugh.

sorry!

 

Knowing the way I am, I would probably be drawn back there regardless. Just like I was drawn back to my childhood home once we had moved from it when my parents decided to divorce. It sat empty, we hadn't sold it yet, but one day I decided to take a bus there after school. Mind you, I was in 7th grade at the time. Anyway, I went there all by myself, without telling anyone where I was going. I have no clue what I was thinking doing something like that, as our new home was far from where that house was.

I still had a key, so I let myself in. I just walked through the rooms, I felt drawn there despite the negative energy and unpleasant memories. Except, going there made me feel worse. I ended up sitting on the floor of the dining room and just sobbing. Then I just got up and left, walked to a neighbor's house and begged to use their telephone. I called my mother and told her where I was and she freaked out.

After that, I never went back, but I still drive by that house from time to time as it's not all that far away from where I currently reside. It always makes me shudder.

But I think I closed a chapter of my life when I revisited that day. It was like, I had to go there one more time on my own.

It depends on how you can deal with the emotions revisiting a place in your life that brought upon certain feelings and memories. It might be good to get it out of your system, then again, it could cause you more emotional pain and make you regress into a time in your life that you want to leave behind.