How do you get over......

your dad?

for those who remember my thread i made almost a year ago- an update: i'm in a court battle against him now... he's made all these booklets and is bringing in all these witnesses to say what a great father he was (as if he'd be a perv when other people are around)

but everything reminds me of him now.. how do i get him off my mind?

 

you fill your life with challenging , forward moving , and blissfull endevours .....your victory should be in living your life and making kind rippeles in the pond

 

I'm sorry you're having a rough time right now Nisha. I wish you much peace. Listen to makno. Great advice.

 

know that the best revenge is living a good life

and know that you are more important than him. time spent thinking of him is wasted time, time better spent on you

 

C'mon! I doubt he was a perv. Are you SURE you didn't fabricate that scenario just to get back at him for something?

 

Awww sorry you are having problems - i think the best way to get over him is to tell the truth in court, why is he in court? If you decide after all this has finished and you dont want to see him again - cut all ties with him. If you cant forgive him etc force him out of your life.


smug bug - you are gross and disgusting

 

I'm sorry if any of my well wishes have reminded you of negative things. I wish you the very best. You're going to have to go through some uneasy moments & times. Just place one foot in front of the other, keep going, and you'll get through it. Just remember that you have a lot of friends here. Good luck, friend.

 

dads suck. i know

 

professional counsellnig and/or forming new, healthy relationships with people around you

 

Oh god I'm so sorry Nisha as a minor you have the power to reem his ass with few repercussions though and as far as the memories let them go they're false. What he did to you out ways any good times you had together so you just have to remember that much love

 

thanks everyone. i appreciate it.

 

my friend had a problem with custody and her dad. he was a digusting person and everyone we knew, knew about him. He fought and fought and every year he would still have custody of her but finally she broke loose and is now living with her mom and having the time of her life.

i just hope everything works out ok

 

Am I reading this correctly?
I hope not.

 

The trick is to work through forgiveness, only then will you truly be able to find peace with yourself. I've went through a similar situation and I know how rough forgiveness can be.