people saying there is no pressure to pleasure the opposite sex orally... well i think theres a lot of pressure. I mean if ur married or your older and have a lot of experience, u may not think about it. But i think the younger and less experience you have the more pressure there is on you. And i can say, when you dont have experience you wont know the opposite sex very well haha. I mean you can always learn like Hippychickmommy said she did, but still you may read a lot, but theres still that pressure there. peace~
There probably is just as much pressure for females to be able to pleasure a guy, but I guess we feel it more when it comes to our own sex. I really do feel this pressure to perform, but I guess its coming from both sides. Unfortunately there's a whole culture of guys who expect that girls give oral sex and judge them on the measly basis of how good they are. I'm not one of them and neither is any of my friends and you should just ignore them. And what you said about wetness turned me on, dribble away
my boyfriend loves me giving him head! i've only ever done it to two people and he's had it off loads of people before me and he says mine is the best!! ^_^ Kitty_Kat
yeah.. thats what happened with me and this one guy.. he was one of those that never came from head - until he met me.. and i must say that made me feel pretty.. accomplished.. (well that and the fact that my most recent ex told me that i gave him what was probably the best head he's had in his life ) i enjoy giving head.. i knew about the glans - but not from research, just from experience.. like someone else said, i watch and listen to my partner and feel what their body is doing to know whether or not i'm doing a good job.. i too have never gotten any complaints.. lots of compliments, but no complaints so far.. and im always willing to learn something new. all he/she has to do is ask..
Dude, "glans" is another name for the head. There's no gland called the glans. It's the entire head. Google images of "glans." Or look in the dictionary. It says "a conical vascular body forming the extremity of the penis." That would be the head, wouldn't it.
yeah, i realised that after doin a bit of research. Hoped noone would point it out, embarrassing. Maybe we should try and come up for names for that little spot though, its merited