Is it possible to raise a baby without either of the parents being drivers? if so, how? i really need to know
If you live in an area with public transportation or within a walking distance of your needs (doctors, grocery store, etc) then there's absolutely no problem. Very few people in big cities have cars and they all raise kids just fine! However, if you live somewhere like I do where there's no public transportation at all, no sidewalks, and ditches on either side of the road so you can't walk anywhere safely, then it would be more tricky. You can always have friends or family drive you if you need to get somewhere that there's no access to walking, though.
You could try baby wearing using something like a maya wrap. You can then keep the baby under your coat. Your own body temperature will keep the baby warm. You will also have no need to cart a huge buggy around. I see baby wearing a better way of carrying the child around because it seems so much more convenient than a buggy. I have seen the difference with my own eyes. I have seen people carrying babys in a sling just walk on to buses and trains without much hassle at all where as people with buggies tend to struggle. I am pretty sure the baby would appreciate the contact. I am sure there are parents who have first hand experience of carrying a baby in a sling on this site who would be better able to give you advice than I would. Matt
I don't drive and live like silverclover talked about where I can get round to all I need by either walking or catching public transport. I found when my littley was really small that lots of layers and hats and blanky's in the pram worked really well...the buses here though are designed to be lowered and have ramps for wheelchairs and prams so that helps...and the prams just roll on the train too. As soon as I could I changed to a stroller and since that broke she now walks everywhere with me and at first wanted to be carried a bit but that is rare now and I have to keep up with her. Walking places is so much fun for little ones...who knew that stones, sticks, the rain on your head and the people in shops that you pass could be such fun!! The rain covers for prams really keep them snug as well...then again this is Australia and it doesn't snow where I am so I am not sure what I would do if it did but the sling sounds good if you are fit and up for it...I tried a sling here and there but found that I then had troubkle carrying everything else even if I used a nana trolley!! It was only today when we were walking from the train to circus class with my little one and her friends that I realised that maybe all this walking is doing her some good as she was the onluy one who didn't want to be carried and gave up part way through. I also use my bike with a seat on it when I think that it is ging to be a bit far ora bit late. The bike absolutely rocks and many a time I have picked her up and put her in bed after a particularly long ride!!
wow thanks for the help guys. my girls still trippin ,but she's only 2 months pregnant and she dosent think a baby without transportation is possible. but then again, she just asked me to buy her a 600 dollar ring that i can never afford. \ so i like the sling idea, we do have buses here. all the poor folks parenting/childcare facilities are downtown, too, so that puts em all on the busline.
Congrats on the pregnancy You guys will do just fine without a car. I agree with getting a sling. You'll be having the babe in the summer and they make reasonable priced slings for summer and for winter. I've worn both my babes as much as possible and it really helps with bonding, breastfeeding in public and they also say it help to get babes brains kick started because they are at nearly eye level with all the adult activity so they get to observe/interact more then they would hanging out in a stroller all day. There are so so many different types of sling/baby carriers that it may be it a bit overwhelming. Do a google for "baby slings" to get your feet wet then come here or have your gal come here to ask for our personal prefrences Good luck and congrats again
All them years ago people didnt have cars to get their kids places did they? If the baby is young wrap it up a bit more. I live in a city and dont have a car but then again i dont have any kis lol. But my sister has 2 kids and no car and she manages easily. He b/f has one but then the parking was a pain everywhere and they decided to get rid of it - its healthier as well
heh...do you think if they areat butt level it gets their butts started!!! okies sorry I am being silly!!! :& congratulations on your exciting news death!
so neither of you can drive or you have no vehicle/ limitations that make driving impossible? How about a bike with a trailer?
awww congrats on the pregnancy!!!!!!! It's hard sometimes.. but it is possible. I hope all works well!
Congrats to both you and your girlfriend! You will both do just fine, and I can tell already that you're going to make a great daddy. Look at you, worrying about your little one already. Make you have a happy and healthy pregnancy, and I can't wait to hear updates!
I lvoe to ride my bike everywhere. so i already thought of the trailer, but thats only a summer thing and i wouldnt feel safe thru the high traffic areas.
Do you live in a city? Or a rural area? Why don't you two drive? I don't drive because I have epilepsy. I am a single parent. Sometimes it truly, truly sucks. And whoever said "Your family and friends can drive you around." is living in a fantasy. That's not realistic. What if the baby's sick and they have to work? It will happen. She's only two months along. If both of you can't drive for medical or legal reasons, MOVE TO THE CITY NOW. I'm serious. If you could drive, but you don't, GET YOUR FREAKING LICENSE NOW. In an emergency, it might save the baby's life. It's one thing to choose not to drive, but at least be able to.
yeah bro, it aint hard to get a liscense. and i know thisngs are tight, but a 600 dollar ring is cheap, so is a 600 dollar car. so save up the loot.
