Why don't men understand???

I am so incredibley sick of the selfish non-hormone understanding bastards that I end up with. I am sick and I took the morning after pill on Saturday so basically I'm a freaking crying wreck, my ex boyfriend comes over and to his benefit he is coming over to bring me medicine but once again he refuses to hug me saying that if he gets sick he can lose a job, he leaves like 5 minutes after he gets here and before he leaves is like 'don't worry you're probobly just feeling extra sick because you took that pill'. no shit???? and why did i take the pill so I wouldn't be pregnant by your dumb insensitive ass...and he didn't want me to take the damn pill. god if he's this insensitive while im sick could you imagine if i were pregnant thank god i took that pill but i wanna stop being a raving emotional loon. This is the second guy I've felt screwed and misunderstood by after taking that stupid pill, and note both guys who acted like jerks afterwards are ones who I was seeing or have seen in the past for at least a year it's not like i sleep with people I don't think love me...are all men this insensitive?

 

do all women complain this much?

 

Well...ummm...yeah.

 

He's your EX-boyfriend. Don't expect too much from him.

You whine lots for a 24yr old.

 

i don't suppose he'd be supportive of your illness from the abortive pill he didn't want you to take in the first place. i think you need to understand that, and it may be yet another reason why he's being insensitive. he's probably just really pissed off.

 

most girls i know like to complain, they just want you to listen thats all. i wouldnt want to get a girl preggers so if she took the pill i would sleep better. ex's can be funny. they dont have to be nice when they sleep with you.

 

oh you don't understand...case in point the urgent care visit of jan 2000. i want to spend new years eve with my family and he's invited but he wants us to go out with HIS friends or just he and I instead. I get pissed we must have fought because i remember not alking to him. Anyway like the middle of janruary he calls me needing a ride to urgent care because he's too sick to drive i drive him no problem AND take him to everyone of his subsequent oxygen therapies, which are an hour away from where I was living at the time. i take care of him no prob and have everytime he's been sick whether we were together or not so for him to just bring me stuff and not even like hug me and give me some generic 'hope ya feel better' argh I am super piussed and not happy with men at the moment. I need a break from men for reals and ya know what you're kind of a bitch so I need a break from you too

 

RE: oh you don't understand...case in point the urgent care visit of jan 2000. i want to spend new years eve with my family and he's invited but he wants us to go out with HIS friends or just he and I instead

HE'S YOUR EX BOYFRIEND

GET OVER IT

Better yet, come back and revisit this thread when you're less of a progesterone queen.

 

i like girls when they are angry and horny. they are more fiesty....

 

Just because you're nice to him doesn't mean he's going to be nice to you.
He is your ex for a reason right?

I wasn't being a bitch, I was simply being observant.

 

no no no ya wanna know what this is all over seriously im not shitting you-mariah carey, because i do not like mariah carey...does he like mariah carey?-no but because i don't like mariah carey all of a sudden i will never be 'romantic or sweet'. and he can't have a baby...he smokes pot several times A DAY at 33 or 34 where he could lose his contractors license if they found out, yet he does it on site at work.....not smart not who i want to be the father of my kids...but then i guess i shouldn't have sleep with his eh? that wasn't too smart on my move.

 

are you done yet?

 

hold on, mariah carey what?

 

OK please, please shut up.

Wait a few days until your brain is no longer under hormonal assault.

Then post again.

K?

You broke up with him, he's out of the picture, he's not interested in going to see yer folks. He owes you NOTHING. K?

Yeah, you're taking the MAP, but unless he raped you you were stupid enough to spread em for him without protection. So wise up a little and pick a better boyfriend and get on proper birth control next time K?

 

i used to like mariah carey's music, now i just like her boobs. does this make me insensitive. i think not. i havent smoked weed in months but i want some now.

 

please dont encourage her

 

yeah because i guess some song was how i was supossed to feel about him and i said but that's not how i love people and some stupid song writter made that up mariah carey didn't even write it and you don't even like pop music so why ya getting mad at me for not liking her? and then it was a huge blown out drug out fight last weekend.

 

fuck you don't open the thread you insensitive, virgin- asshole

 

im not ashamed of my virgin asshole

 

what no he loves my family he just always bitches that im with them for 'every holiday' and on hormones????????? you should know about them I'm sure your nightly case of blue balls generates a few too many hormones.