Forced Kissing

It's kind of a hobby of mine to study social interaction, especially between guys and girls. So I've a few questions for you...

1) Have you resisted a guy's physical advances to see if he would take a more
aggressive stance?
2) Do you like to have some sexual interaction forced?

Me, if she gives me direct or tacit indicators of interest, I force everything up to straight up sex. If she averts her glance when I go in for the kiss, I will grab her hair at the base of her skull and pull down while I pin her arms behind her back-- at some isolated place, of course. Then I look to see if her eyes close and her mouth opens. If so, the sexual tension seems to escalate bigtime.

Thoughts?

 

My thoughts: please stop raping women.

 

wow.. mine as well

 

I wonder why the sexual tension escalates.

Dude, just get bitches drunk. It's much easier.

 

haha same here... crazy people out there!

 

well, if I was genuinely interested and playing coy, and it stopped at a kiss, it might be attractive. BUT I would -HAVE- to be interested in him, and have him know that, otherwise it's just, well, creepy. Really creepy, actually. Basically, only works if I'm already in a relationship with that person and just playing around.

 

Well you could voluntarily seek mental health treatment
~or~
be forced to retain counsel somewhere down the Road.


...if you cannot afford counsel then one may be appointed by the Court...

 

Just reverse the roles, and this is my thought exactly. Even then, though... I'd HATE to called it a "forced" kissing. It's just like taking the dominant role and be a little aggressive about it. And I'd really feel uncomfortable if the girl wasn't laughing or smiling.

But to forcefully kiss a total stranger just because I find her to be attractive and want her to be my girlfriend? Nope, not my style at all. That's where I use my mouth to speak and smile, not kiss.

 

Totally agreed.

But, hair grabbing? No to everyone. No-one grabs MY head and forces me to go down on them without me taking action against their attempted rape.

Xx

 

1) Have you resisted a guy's physical advances to see if he would take a more
aggressive stance? Yes.
2) Do you like to have some sexual interaction forced? Yes.

 

If you have to force it, it's involuntary.

 

Thanks all for the replies. So some said yes to both questions, some acknowledged force as something that might work, and some replied such that they would never do it. Interesting that the ones who seemed disinclined to force were mostly guys. I bet these same guys are the followers in their relationships. They may even believe they are the leaders or at least leadership is comprised of a 50/50 relationship, but all this means is the women in their lives RULE them.

 

Or perhaps those people beleive that "leader", "follower" and "Ruler" are roles that are inconsistant with a truely intimate relationship.

 

Agreed except for those on the Dark Side.

 

Let me put it this way ----

it could also mean that the men aren't mind readers and don't wish to go to jail cause they guessed wrong.

If you're "forcing yourself" cause she says it's OK to do so, does that make you any more of an aggressor? Actually, you're technically following her lead.

pwned

 

ya, second that!

seriously dude, I think you have some issues pertaining to your sexual well being, it's been said before in this thread and I'll say it again, what you're talking about is rape here

 

screw you, go crawl in a hole you rapist. the men who said NO actually respect a woman's wishes. if the girl is ok with it, then fine. but if you are doing this and waiting for a reaction from her, then that's fucked up. i've been through too much crap to see you bitch out guys who aren't in total control of women. so you're saying men need to be the leaders in their relationships? fuck that, i wear the pants. 50/50 isn't good enough for you?

 

if a girl says no you dont carry on

 

Well, I think 50/50 is definitely a good thing.