I just know...

ya'll are just being unreasonable

reality is not that simple... I know because I have kids that are not with him and that shit complex too. all you can do is attempt to be an adult about things

 

SO what!!!!!!!!!!!!! :$
I live with my man who has a 5 year old daughter and hell if he is going to go spend the whole fucking night over there! She (the daughter) comes to OUR house to be watched!!!
Hey, you're the one who brought this problem of yours here, we are just telling you our honest opinion. Plus you were the one all worried about him cheeting on you......so there obviously is something wrong with the relationship! ......ass

 

Hmmmm lonely the haters are so lonely they have no body to call their own. Wow, you guys are dense!!! Here's a man who is obviously taking an interest in his kid's lives, making sure that he sees them and spends time with them. Miss. F got a little worried because he is such a great guy and we tend to worry about losing one when the one is wonderful. He sounds like a winner, not only takes care of his own but helps miss f with hers as well. You guys really have no solid ground to judge this guy poorly. You just seem to jump on someone's slightest insecurity, which is very much indicative that you yourself are a miserable, pathetic, lonely, judgemental, crabby, insecure, bitch. And I would change that because no one wnats to be nor be with a crabby, insecure, bitch;right?

 

well your guy sounds a bit selfish and non-family orienteed. He should grow up and show his kid that he cares enough about him to be civil to the mother.

 

yep...I'm paranoid.

we live 30 minutes away and the oldest has to go to school. plus the girl is a bitch, she doesn't want them here and she is their mother

 

WOW! So know you are the one who is judgeing!!! Funny how you just said that we have no right to judge this guy but you come on here and judge me!!!! WTF?!
First off, she came on here and said "oh, he's not home yet, I think he's cheeting....blah blah blah" So she is the one who brought this on!
Second, you Ms. Lynsey sound very judgemental and crabby yourself so think twice before you start typing next time.

 

thank you so much. exactly.

working out the new family dynamic is gonna take time.

 

BUT, he is the father, he has the right to take them places too!
Unless he has no parental rights at all which in that case....well, that's a diff. story.

 

Ok, now you have no fucking clue what you are talking about! HA!

Considering the mother is a drug addict, a stripper, and has moved his 5 year old 30 times in her life........And we are now 5 days away from full custody.....ya, you have no clue!

 

then your man just sounds like a dumbass for banging the mom...either way you put it the situation you're in doesn't look good so why are judging others when your situtation doesn't warrant you to give advice?

 

Cause SHE fucking asked for the advice!!!!!!!! So here it is!!!!!!!

*This is stupid...................*

 

alright you guys are losers not even worth our time in this thread...and to dmgreen I don't think she sought out the advice of women who's boyfriends are the baby daddy's of a stripper. I think she wanted advice from somone who had their shit together and was on her sdame level of togethreness, which you two are definitley not.

 

Yaaaaaaa.....
Considering my man is now a doctor and I am a designer, both very well off.......but oh, we don't have our shit together!

As for his babies mama......things happen in the past that you regret but that is why his future is much brighter, cause you learn from your mistakes!

 

thank you for your advice

now please...grow up

 

OK ok ok.....enough with all this silliness.......

Do what's in your heart, it will lead you in the right direction.
We don't know you, you don't know us.
So my advice is to just follow your heart.

Good luck girl!

 

done and done

I love him and know him...I had a moment of paranoia. I talked to him tonight and he confirmed all I know of him. So I will

good luck to you as well. its christmas and we're both in love...no need to fight.

and now a sincere thank you for reading and responding to the thread

 

exes are the absolute worst, specially exes with children, they just hang around in the back ground, waiting to pull rank, my mans ex calls me "missy" on the phone to him. Now if that aint direspectful, stupid haggard old bitch, I dont know what is