I've been in this situation. Role reversed of course and the reason I said it was B) I was completely lying and just said that to keep me in her good graces till she actually gave it up.
Well then if that's what he meant.. it seems like he's pretty full of himself. Sure, it might be true but I wouldn't wanna hear a guy saying something like that in a situation like that.
Not perfect man. No no no not perfect. He should have been like: well ok.. with a really disappointed look on his face. That'd make you feel sorry you said no But basically he should seem some disappoint, that makes me feel good about myself.
It really depends on you. If you're not ready to get fucked, that's fine. But I know I wouldn't appreciate it if a girl got me that far (naked in bed kissing?) and then said, "uh actually I'm not ready for this yet". If you're gonna do something, do it all the way or don't even start.
lol @ Smooth E That's a lovely sig pic you got goin' on there too. edit: whoa that's very strange. What happened to Smooth E? Hipforums ate him! I swear there were these other posts here...
Yuck. NOT a perfect man. First off, anyone women that's stupid enough to let herself get naked in bed with someone and not want sex is either a) a moron b) mentally handicapped or c) naive as all hell! I'm thinking in these days, she'd be a! But seriously, what the fuck is up with women wanting men that are pseudo-women? I thought it was good to have diversity amongst the sexes? Perhaps I was wrong?
I personally think he's genuine, and also think that there should be MORE guys like him. And my ex-girlfriend was not a moron by being naked and in bed with me and still wishing to remain a virgin. I'm not homosexual or lying either for respecting her wish and in turn remaining a virgin myself. All it means is that the guy has great respect for her. Sex is important, yes. But it's only a part of a whole relationship. What makes a relationship so great is because you get to really connect with your partner at a really deep level. Seriously, what's so wrong with being a sensitive guy??
thank you for a support to my (probably) naive imagination about men.. or not, it's not naive, it's just MINE.. thank you
yeah what AT said... I mean, sex isn't that important all the time... Sure it's nice, but really if you love a person it's so good just to be together... Sex or no sex Just like when I meet my baby I don't wanna rush it I want it to be special
You're welcome. I personally kind of relate to this guy, so I had to comment. I don't really know about the whole being a musician part, though, I guess he might mean that he's an artist and that he's intensely receptive to what goes around him. In other words, he sees you naked and he DOES want to have sex...or at least he does physically and at the primal level. But he seems also to be a man of morals who has respect for women, thus, he has no problem waiting until his partner is ready. Well, I don't know this guy, but that's the speculation I've come up with, anyway, lol. Cheers,