i just had to shout out. it feels good when youre no longer emotionally attached to someone you dont wanna be attached to. and those feelings of love are set free, more so fleeting and.....gone!!!!
Thats sad I cant help thinking that love that can die so suddenly could never have been love in the first place, though. Xx
What happened? How'd you detach from the one you didn't want to be attached to? I have a lovely girl in my past who I can't think anything bad about but she's in my past and that's it. I need to detach.
but how do u detach from the one u love and the one that u will love forever but the one that is no good for u that only causes pain
no way, it took time for me to detach myself from those feelings and i believe it was real. it was jus too many hot & cold moments and "right feeling, wrong time". its a long story, but it lasted for like 14mo or so without the "bf/gf" title. i dont have any bad feelings either - that what makes it feel so good!!! i cant really explain HOW to detach, everyone is different and it took long for me to jus get over it jus because it was/is time. you can love someone forever but not be emotionally attached to them to where your heart is soley theirs (hence the term "de-tachment"). i cant say whether hes no good exactly but i kno if it were meant to be, it wouldve happend by now. peace
You can love someone and have been in love with them and still get over the fact that they aren't in your life. I think she just means that she isn't still pining over him, that her heart doesn't feel broken anymore. I fell in love when I was 14. It took me 4 years to get over him. I still know, without a shadow of a doubt, that I was in love with him.
