Its hard to jusdge from so little. There are guys who want sex to have meaning and emotion bahind it, and there are also men who just know that they are more likely to get sex if they arent pushy. And there are a lot of other things it could be.
"no really, im glad you dont want me, cus being a calvin klein model and heir to a billionaire empire, all women want out of me is sex, you really have showed me that girls can be intrested in the more deeper things inside of me, like did you know im a musician . .. ."
well, it depends, but sex can be very meaningful and romantic even if you have known eachother for less than an hour ( it doesn't happen very often though... hehe) talking about my experiences with musicians
I think its awesome and sex should be special for the first time. If shes not ready for it, than why push her for sex. One day she will be and I'm sure they'll be fucking like rabbits on red bull and crack cocaine.