Hi, I'm Steve-O ... I guess masturbating is one of my favorite hobbies... When I was a kid I used to to it 4-5 times a day, and now I do about 4-5 times a week. I have a question however. I am a virgin, and I always fear that "the first time" (or maybe the second and third as well for that matter) I am going to cum in 8 seconds... Is this a normal fear and is it likely to be relevant? Do all you other male virgins out there feel that way?
Most guys do. Even if it's their first time with a new chick. Relax. You'll only last five seconds, if you even make it into the love cave without busting your nut. Then again, you might be so terrified you won't even be able to get it up. Rahah. Best wishes.
Well, but also if you're nervous, it might also take a little _longer_. That's what happened to me... wasn't quite used to the stimulation from sex and all, so it actually took me a little longer the first time than it does now.
Thanks guys! I always wonder though if it wouldn't be a bad idea to jerk off the night before the night... I just don't want to end up like our friend in American Pie..
masturbation is a hobby..? anyway, I'm sure you will do fine. Chicks don't get off from penetration anyway.
WRONG I don't NEED penetration to get off, but thats a long way from saying I dont get off on penetration!
hey man, get a lil' drunk first. Hide it if you have to, but have like 4 or 5, just make sure you dont drink so much that you cant get it up. but it'll help out alot, thats my trick for avoiding a 4 second blow out the first time i nail a girl, lol, its funny but once i've had them that one time, my staying power goes back to normal.
I have always taken ages to cum, even on my first time. But from what most girls tell me, most guys don't last much longer than a minute or so.
That's a good idea... I had a guy come as he was taking his jocks off, and another came as he was penertrating me...as punishement, I made the second guy eat me out good...
That's totally normal. Just have her make you cum before intercourse. Then continue with foreplay and have sex.
I second that - but not whole day before, it won't help. maximum is one hour before you have the sex.. best is when you are with the girl and know you're going to have sex, go to the toilet and masturbate in there. she'll never know...