I'm dating a guy who's a lot older than me

I'm 19......and he's in his 40's. I've been thinking about it alot lately, and trying to figure out if this really is the right thing to do...weighing the pros and cons...and in the end, the only thing that remains in my head is that when I'm with him, it feels like nothing I've ever experienced before, and all he has to do is brush his fingers across my hand and my heart feels like it's going to explode from my chest.

 

So what's the problem. You're both of legal age....

 

youre of legal age, hun. do what you want to and its nobodys business but yours and his. i have been dating older guys all my life because thats just the way i prefer it. you cant put an age on love. my dad is 25 years older than my mom and they are still happy and in love after 20 years of marriage. dont let anyone try to discourage your gut feeling. i wish you two the best

 

Thanks.....my brother's being a pretty big dick about it though

 

haha well hes your brother, its his birthright. i can relate to that too. ive grown up with a million brothers so pretty much every guy ive ever brought home that my brothers didnt like the look of got chased out into the street with baseball bats. they bring random broads home every night and fuck them on our living room couch and thats okay but every time i find a nice guy, he gets the shit beaten out of him for wanting to be with me. its an unfair world i hate big brothers.

 

I'm in the same situation. I'm sprung on this guy I went out with who's 50...and I'm 24, It's the same thing anytime he touches me I just get goosebumps-the good kind. And he's not a perve like guys my own age and he has really good taste and all that. After dinner I went back to his house and we watched an entire movie and did nothing more than kiss, he didn't go staight for the boobs like most guys do. And he's a good cook, has a beautiful house on the ocean, great taste in movies and art, just so much more sophisticated than anyone I've ever been with. I am going to have to wear really ugly panties my next few dates so I don't jump him.

 

Old men's yucky. Is his hair grey or is it gone?

 

Lol, yeah he's not really into random girls, but the part that irks me is that he's pissed about me dating an older guy, and yet his girlfriend is 16 and he's almost 20.....

His hair is black, not dyed, but natural.

I know what you mean Lynsey, about your guy not being a perv like most guys in our age group.....He's so nice, and he has so much wisdom to offer. But at the same time he's not some old fart, he's kind of...ageless in spirit, if that makes sense.


He has tatoos, he's in a band, and he owns a music store. I'm in Ohio for my winter break and all I think about is him....I've never been a really emotional person, but since I've started dating him it's like I've turned into a total sap =P

 

It seems that many young guys do not know how to treat a woman. Or they elect not too.