ugh, i honestly do. i miss my girlfriend so much. she's hardly been gone two days, and i didn't even really talk to her yesterday, besides one phone call. i say that because normally i'm like "i need to talk to her!" but today it just hit me. it makes me really sad, not only because she's gone right now, but because she will be gone permanently soon. she's moving away from me. ugh. it makes me so sad because i love her so much. this is all combined with a bad dream i had last night, so that sorta makes it worse. =/ i don't really put an age on love so i'm not for any of those "you're still young, there's plenty of fish in the sea" statements. meh, it gets to the point where i get physically sick then i just feel horrible. ugh..
hmm, no, that's now how i "roll" haha, i made a pun those sometimes cheer me up argh... all of her favorite songs keep coming on is this some kind of sign? =/
before she moved away, spend the day outside at the park or in the woods somewhere, and just realllllly end things off nicely =) dont cut any chords, but really let it be known that you guys will always have love for one another, and even though you know it's gunna be hard being apart, to let your love dance between your distance. i dont know if you are going to end things when she moves off, but that's truly not important. in time things will make themselves how they're meant to be. whether another girlie comes into your life, and your girlfriend respects that. or, yatta yatta. things will play themselves out man =). cherish the love you two got, and it'll be able to stretch over the land, regardless where she goes. maybe you'll be with eachother in the future? all this information is probably nonsense though =\\ i'm sure it's toughtimes man =( just keep on
"i don't really put an age on love so i'm not for any of those "you're still young, there's plenty of fish in the sea" statements." no disrespect meant, but youre only 18, that's why you dont really put an age on love. Im not claiming all worldliness and shit cuz im only 22 myself, but i do know that im a much different person at 22 then i was at 18. It'll get easier for you with time, and other girls will come along, trust me.
yeah, that's truly what i'm hoping for and i don't plan on ending anything when she leaves i love her to death and she knows it i want this to continue and she does too it's just the whole being apart from her thing that gets to me i have this horrible fear of being completely alone so i guess that's where the insecurity comes from i just feel a lot better knowing she's at least within and hour's drive ...so i know i'm gonna have to get used to it...i guess i just miss her so much.. and what you say makes sense to me i mean, i know that, things are gonna happen how they happen regardless i just gotta let them happen meh...i want things my way =P
I've never had a long distance relationship but a close friend of mine has...and says in retrospect he wishes they hadn't decided to continue it after she left. They had one great day together before she left, but instead of leaving that as the end, they tried to maintain this relationship and it didn't work out well on either end. Granted, they were both kind of immature fucks and one of them still sorta is. And I don't know about the nature of your relationship. You just gotta think about this. It's never easy to keep a love like that going, immature or not. Although maturity helps, quite a bit. I hope everything works out well for you. Really. And do try to get in contact with her ASAP....even hearing their voice after having a bad dream involving them will make you feel better.
How far away is she moving too? Can you move to where she is? Can she move to where you are in a few years?
one of two places, far away, or not so far away (something like 20 hours away or 5 hours away) i can't necessarily move to where she is yet, depending on the college i go to and where she decides to move, i could end up being closer to her and she may be able to move to where i am again in a few years but...that's a few years from now... this is all going to work out one way or the other
Well, I certainly am a dreamer and I've figured out that people all need and want different things. People are all different. Some, like the single life, and some can handle a long distance relationship if they know that's what they want. I am one of those dreamers.
I might sound a bit extreem, but people who dont want to be decicive only lose what they were trying to hold on to. Long distance relationships (that are going to remain long distance for a long time) are more pain than anything else, you cannot posibly comunicate enough to keep from growing apart, or to realise that your growing apart untill it painfully hits all at once and your alone, and you feel like an idiot. In the meantime while thats aproaching you'll be lonely. If whatever you have to do to keep being near her isnt worth it, then stay in touch but dont try to keep hanging on to that closeness. If she is worth it, then do what you have to do. And whatever you do to be near her, the fact is life is unpredictable anyway, you might feel staying is secure and going is not, the reality is nothing is secure. Even if it doesnt work you'll find out what you really want. if the case is that your gut feeling and your logic both tell you to stay where you are, then it would be pretty well settled. Im sure theres a way to make whichever way you choose make sence. Going to college near her may be a way. I'm not recomending rash actions without thought, just that you let how you feel affect your thinking. You know how you feel.
I agree that if its meant to be, you'll find your way back to each other. My boyfriend now was my boyfriend at 18. We split and had own lives (and kids). Now here we are 8 years later, back together and in love. Fate is fate
meh sorry, thought you guys were breaking up and i posted advice, but then i read that you aren't breaking up so, you don't need my advice anyways, i'm sorry that she's moving away, but it's true that if you guys truly are meant for each other, she'll come back to you
that's what i like to believe everything has sort of worked out since this post started we've talked about it a lot and realized a lot of things it shan't be hard, other than the fact we won't be able to see each other every day like we do now just about i think that's why it's so hard in the first place but it's all going to work out
