me and my boyfreind of 5 yrs just took a "break" were just gona be freinds for a while until were both ready to grow up and have the need for eachother forever, but hes the typical guy who wants his space and wants to have sex with other girls cuz im the only one hes been with, i understand were hes coming from, its gona take time to come around, were only 21 we have out whole life but now we need to have fun while we still can, ya know how it is,same old stuff, hes the love of my life i wana marry him someday, and ill be there waiting and having my fun at the same time, do u guys think that its a good thing this is happening now?? his mom told me that she went through the same thing with his father the more u push onto them the more they push away from u, she said he finally came around , and mike will do the same for me, if its meant to be, but u just know i cant explain it, i mean i know i have more feelings then him he is very stubborn and doesnt show his soft side often but i love him and i will always be there for him as friends FOREVER until hes ready and me too. am i doin the right thing?? should i just leave him be after the new years, we need the space??
it depends...always. there's no telling for certain how things will work out in the end. you are both super young and its much better, IMO, that if either one of you is concerned about not having been "out there" or "had fun" with others or whatever, that you address it now instead of ten years down the line after you've been married with children. my boyfriend of 3 years and i went thru the same thing....and now 3 years later he wants to reunite for good. i still love him but with my situation right now im not ready to get back together with him or even be with anyone else...but perhaps later on down the line, who knows? you sound like you have a mature attitude about it and i hope things work out in your favor.
The chances of you two getting back together is slim to none...sorry to burst your bubble... People change...situations change...most of the time, it's not meant to work out.
I would leave him alone...for good. His indecisivness and hot and coldness doesn't sound very healthy for YOU. remember you're young too and need to figure things out for yourself as well, it's not all about him.
thanks for everyones advice, but i think that we will be ok for now, i need to give him time to miss me, but as long as we remain best friends ill be ok ..no matter what happends down the road.
