hi peeps need your advice, How do you keep limp when your having sex??????? hell the second the lass's hand is on it its rock hard , but in the movies and that there virtuly limp, how do they do this please tell.
Praise yourself lucky. Once you're past 35 you'll start worrying about not getting it hard! So enjoy it while it lasts.
There are three ways. 1. You masturbate/have sex (ejaculate sperm) and then, when you have sex or masturbate agian in a short amount of time, it will be limp. I don't like it that way. 2. You get old. 3. You don't become fully aroused. Its really difficult to do this when your having sex though. Why would you want it limp anyway?
so basically you mean, hard enough to give it to her, but not so hard that she looks at it and your done yeh? well tbh, that probably is only hollywood one solution, might be to masturbate and/or have sex so much that your dick only gives half a damn because it knows it'll be getting more in 5 minutes anyway
In porno movies? Dude those guys have done it so much that there is little to no sensation in them anymore, its a job not even fun, notice the girls hardly react? they can be railed byu a 12 inceh and not feel a thing its cuz there PORN STARS and cant feel physical pleasure anymore, it must really suck. But jacking b4 you engage in sex(like 3 hours b4) kinda helps or just beat it up all day b4 you go out...
It takes some time to train your mind to ignore the anticipation...which is really all that makes someone ultra hard presex. I used to hate getting so hard so fast, especially when you want to come off like a superhero. But yeah the trick is really just training yourself mentally. Like your cock-mind is super immature. There is no concept of patience...but it can be learned. I remember that I intially started because I was obsessed with getting sucked when totally soft...like straight out of the surf barely visible soft. Well whenever I would ask for that just the thought of it got me rock hard, thus ruining my special softness. It's hard to remember how it happened but it did take a lil bit of time working on my mind, but it eventually just clicked...like I realized that to get what I wanted I needed to block the thought in my mind...or like play a trick on myself. The joke has always been to think of your gramma and stuff but thats not real. The brain has a lever that controls the penis but you have to learn how to use it. Totally like the Woody Allen 'everything...sex...afraid..ask' sketch with the guy getting hard at the dinner table and the spermanauts waiting to launch...totally.
its meant to be hard. Nothing pleases me more than my boys hard cock, because it shows hat hes into it you know, that he wants me as bad as I want him. I am always flattered by a rock hard cock in my honor
It is meant to be hard and I'm just saying that control is possible. RGRrrl I had always thought premature ejac was a joke right...like a myth or something. It was here in Oz that I first heard this commercial on the radio for some clinic specializing in premature ejaculation help...it gave some crazy percentage like 1 out of every 5 or something suffers. No way I say I never heard anything, saw anything about that in the US. But if it is real...man that would suck and I'd wanna do everything I could do get that under control. The commercial is like, "Is there something ruining your special cuddles?" Quite funny maybe you've heard it in SA. Most guys have been in some situation where they didn't want to be hard when they were with a girl. Its pretty sensitive issue I think. I know I used to be pretty paranoid when I was a teenager...kissing at 14 and feeling movement and thinking, 'oh she's gonna think i'm so weak.'
if you are past 35 i feel sooo sorry for you .....i'm 54 and THAT problem hasn't cropped up yet but the funny thing is one of my professors used to say the same thing .........then again he used to mix his biology classes with religion ...wouldn't talk about birth control ..just abstinance .......no wonders some of the girls i went to school with ended up pregnant way too soon
Hmmm I guess I didn't respond to this right. I don't think it is possible to keep limp when 'having' sex; I think that's called impotence, something men try not to achieve. But as for the emboldened text, of course you want to have some control in that situation. You're in a bar. Chick walks up to you and suddenly your making out against a wall. Your into it. She slides her hand along the length of your belt, her pinky catching the your fly. Your in a bar and your wearing loose shorts. Finding yourself in launch mode doesn't sound like such a great thing in that venue. You wouldn't want to be nothin, but you'd surely want to be a good deal less than petrified.
I think I know what you mean... I'm the same way. A chick so much as LOOKS at me the right way, I get a hard on. It can be quite embarrasing sometimes, especially while dancing. I havce no idea how to control it, it pretty much has a mind of it's own. I much rather have it this way though, than having a hard time getting it up.
in most movies when you see them having sex or something, and they dont have a hard on or nething. its because they take breaks in between shooting the scenes. I was watching a making the movie type thing one time. i forgot what movie it was. But the guy would do a sign with his hand and the director would call cut and he would have to take a break because he was starting to get aroused. and this isnt porn movies. this was an actual movie movie that comes out in theatres haha. idk how to help u seeing that im a girl haha, but just thought id tell ya. cuz it is hollywood and they make the impossible always seem possible. special effects and the edit out a lot. Peace~
In the porn movies they use a densensitizing lube on the females. I'm not sure how much effect this has on the males but it may be what your looking for. I'm not sure why u don't want a woody it is a great turn on for a chic.
