What gets you off ladys

Heres one for the ladys,

Which do you prefear, climax due to penetration or climax due to foreplay ????

 

Four kinds of play sounds pretty damn cool.

 

haha , 4play is fun

 

"You're heavy" will ususaly get me off a lady.

 

perhaps you should change that to its proper title
"foreplay"
unless of course by "fourplay" you are incinuating a foursome...
then i'm sure that would get a lot of diff. girls off

 

i get off of ladies when they tell me too. or grunt

 

well any sort of orgasm is alright by me, but i do enjoy penetration alot.

 

I don't come easily and usually after two rounds the guys are spent and need a break (I cool down in the meantime). If there was no foreplay I'd prolly rarely get off.

 

Maybe I'm a little weird but I can only orgasm while doing it in one certain position. When I get on top, inter-lock my fingers above his head, and close my eyes, my boyfriend knows to shut the fuck up and let me do my thing.

To answer the original question, foreplay ALWAYS helps. In fact it's a necessity.

 

my girl gets off on both but foreplay first sure helps

 

what the hell people
you're all damn crazy
no one needs to leave out foreplay
it's too damn fun =P

 

fourplay isn't a word, you know....

 

I usually cum on top too. But definitely foreplay gets me there.

 

Well Havent really gotten that far with either..
BUT I think For-play would make me climax alot faster, and easier then actual sex..

 

Well, honestly it's EASIER to have an orgasm simply by rubbing/licking the clit. However, there really is nothing like hitting that g-spot and making me shiver! So... I personally like to be getting a good hard fucking and rubbing my clit as hard as I can and coming that way! So you kill two birds with one stone!

 

Foreplay is a neccessity.

 

Well, there's nothing like foreplay, but I've never gotten off during sex so I kind of rely on the activities before sex to get me off.

 

I have a bit of a dilema. My wife doesn't like foreplay. She used to. Now, she doesn't like me to do much of anything besides penetrate her. She seems to enjoy getting me off. She derives no pleasure (she says) from oral anything, not her breasts, not her clit, nothing. She doesn't even like me to use my fingers on her clit. I know I'm doing this right, but I don't think she "wants" tofeel anything. She has problems with intimacy (not necessarily sexual intimacy) because of things that happened to her in the past.

She has NEVER been oral with me, and finds it difficult to stimulate me much. She won't talk about it other than to say she doesn't like it. I tell her I would like her to do more, but she basically refuses to "take matters in her own hands." She has never masturbated other than to experiment as a youth. She does take some pain medications that could be affecting her libido, and I'm really at a loss to know what to do.

We have three children, all grown, so we know how to do things. She's had orgasms but I would not classify them as blockbusters.

Sometimes, when she tells me to just enter her, I'm not quite ready yet because we've not had any foreplay. I think we need to see a sex counselor, but I know she probably won't want to go cause she knows it will be a lot about her and she would rather avoid it altogether.

I'm a very sexual creature, and will do anything to help her appreciate the sexual aspects of our relationship more. Anyone have any advice?

Signed, Mr. Frustration

 

I get off on love

 

"What gets you off ladys"

If this is a question (where's the question mark?) then the answer is: I'm not usually on ladys [sic]. Look into comma usage.

Q: What gets you off, ladies?
A: Not your spelling and grammar.