confused...needing advice....

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by DrRobert, Jan 1, 2006.

  1. DrRobert

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    So when i started this job 5 months ago, i met this girl (A).....we instanty clicked, like ive never clicked with anyone before. There was an undeniable chemistry that i legitametely haven't had with anyone. However, i soon found out that she had just moved and broken up with her boyfriend of 3 years. So I ignored these feelings and we became such close friends. A little while after that, I met this girl (R), who i started dating and although i was head over heels for her, there was no denying something was missing. we wound up breaking up about 2 weeks ago.

    However, while I was dating R, A and I would hang out almost everyday...all the while I would tell R everything. I never kept anything from her....including a couple of times when A slept over for one reason or another. And i swear I never did anythihg inappropriate for my heart belonged to R. But there was no denying the chemistry that A and I had.

    Now, A went home to get the closure she needed with her ex. And I think i have now gotten the closure with R. I know the heeling process with be for a bit on both sides, but I really can't ignore my feelings for A anymore. We have already expressed to each other how we felt, and we both know the feelings are mutual, but we both knew the timing was off. Now that the timing may be right, i was just trying to gather some opinions on what I should do. I'm thinking I need to have a sit down and completely spill my heart. Is it worth trying? What do I say? What do I do? Any advice would be great, I knew i could turn to the fellow hipsters....thanx in advance!
     
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