Just today I noticed that the shaft of my penis isn't as sensitive as it usually is. It's not completely numb, and the head feels normal. I'm thinking it could be stress related, or from sitting at the computer too much. Probably a combination of the two. I have been pretty stressed and confused since new years eve when a good girl-friend and I got pretty close, just cuddling, holding hands etc. The reason for this stress is because she had/has a boyfriend and she told me things are pretty much over between the two of them (she wasn't with him all night on new years) and spent most of the night with me. So I'm just not really sure where I stand with her. I don't want to be a jerk and cheat, but I do have feelings for this girl and I'm certain she feels the same, and has for a while (we've been friends for a long time - our mothers used to take turns babysitting us when we were little) and she asked me out once in high school.. So I'm thinking this whole situation has got me worried/stressed and has caused the physical problem. Everything still works - I can still get an erection and orgasm, and feel it but as I said there's less sensation on my shaft. What do you think?
it happens to me sometimes when i sit at the comp too long. it's just from sitting weird. but it doesn't usually persist for me. if it lasts more than like a half an hour i would ask a doctor. i'm sure youre fine, but it's better to ask someone who would actually know then to get advise from 16 year olds on a forum.
Have you ever had numbness from stress or sitting too long at a computer? If so, then that makes sense. Some people get numbness if they use as new soap or something, they're alergic. Although, the common reason is over use. If this has never happened before, think about what new situation has happened. Have you ever liked a girl before who has had a boyfriend? One thing, saying she is "pretty much" over him is a crap excuse. And just because she wasn't with him all night on NYE doen't mean a thing. They are either still together or not. "Pretty much" is not a way of being. If they are broken up, we wouldn't be having this conversation and you wouln't mention the word cheating (coz you wouldn't be) They're broken up remember? If she is still with this guy or it is unresolved (which is exactly the case buddy) this girl should be more up front with you and not get close with you at all until she has sorted this out with this boyfriend. All this has done, is confused you and left you without knowing where you stand. She should stop playing games and sort this out. Ask her what she wants, she can't have you both and that's what it sounds like. If she definetely ends it with this guy then ask her out. But i would advise that you stop holding hands and "getting close" when she is still attached to another guy. Because A, he will kick your arse and B you will get hurt. Distance yourself, i know you want this to work out a certain way, but it has to happen naturally and without you involved.
