My dad says that I "have" to get my hair cut. He says that I "don't have a choice". My dad is seriously pissing me off. I've already said I'm not getting my hair cut. Its not really long yet, its just a mess. It hasn't even got to my shoulders. My dad doesn't have any right to decide how I should keep my hair, and I don't give a damn if he thinks it looks good or not. My mom is on his side. My sisters have long hair, and my dad had long hair when he was in highschool. They are going to schedule an appointment for me to get my hair cut, but I'm not going. Does anybody else have parents who suck like this?
yea argueing that your sisters ahve long hair probly isnt helping you, unless you infact are also a girl...if that's the case, nevermind
Well my mom hates the fact that I'm dreading my hair right now and she is always saying it looks like shit and that I absolutely have to get it cut and she's making me an appointment. But I've found its better to just be like no casually and just let it be rather than to argue and yell and shit because that pisses them off way more and makes them want to get it cut way more. So try submitting a little more and not reacting to it and you'll prolly go a lot longer without gettin it chopped. Then if it comes down to it you could always stick with your plan of refusing to go to the hair cuttery.
here's an interesting experiment that is completely voluntary (you can choose to refuse this, or just completely ignore me, i'm used to both) if you just spend this entire year of 06 completely agreeing with your parents they'll freak out and tell you stop agreeing with them then you're all cool of course, as i said, that's an experiment, and it could prove to be bad mojo enter at your own risk =)
lol, if i had read your post before i posted i probably would have realized we said basically the same thing except i made it for the year gar =/ should read all before i post i suppose
Once I go it will be the end. Its all or nothing. Defidantly things will be easier if I don't yell, and so far I don't have any reason too. I'm just going to ignore them every time they bring it up. They are being controll freaks.
today my mom said that i will probably be unsuccessful and be living with her in four years and not having a good job since i got like 2 C's in college. and i dont have a major yet. and i wassss thinking psych. but that was one of my C's. she's been putting me down a lot lately. it hurts. and she's still mad cause i wont call AAA for my refund. i mean. i'm prettymuch a new driver. i have nooo clue to problems with my car...typical girl in that dept. and these people are just going to blow me off. i dont wannnna
Tell yer daddio to go fuck himself. An old boyfriend once told me to never shave my head, after I told him I was considering it. I did it anyways.
lindsey - i'm very much in the same boat right now. car problems, insurance, bills, all that adult CRAP, is stuff im gonna have to be learning about really soon and i really really dread it. the adult world, the american way of money and worry is not totally for me i think. luckily, ive been blessed to find cheap living in simple common sense ways, just being smart, so i dont have to worry about money as much. cuz ive learned about things like thrift stores, dumpster diving and trash digging, and im just good at finding what i need with ease. maybe you could learn a little something about those things as well to help you and others along your way, particularly thrift stores which are the easiest probably??? ask your mom if she thinks being a success is completing college, rushing your choice of class and spending your whole life paying for that mistake... and if being a success is having money and a good job? this'll probably piss her off(hell she mighta did the same thing), but it makes sense and itll at least buy you some breathing room. just try to follow your heart, do what you think is right..and dont be afraid to dream, and look outside the so called possibilities they give you. there IS a place in this world for you bleh...just cut your hair for your mom dude. in time youll see how silly it all is and probably feel regret for getting into so much crap with her. i assume your a hippie, with dreads n all...are hippies not about peace and love? does peace and love not start within your own household, to the ones who gave you life????? this is something im awakening to myself as well, it does no good to seperate yourself from others and make yourself different purposely(be it clothes or dreads, or anything). just be yourself, and dont scare people away, and youll find yourself walking a muuch easier path into other peoples hearts, where ya truly wanna be...
my dad is pissing me off at the moment too. a few years ago, he used to smoke a tiny bit, not around the family, but we all knew he did. then he offically declared that he had stopped about 2 years ago. then just last night i found a pack of smokes in his car. i dont really care about the fact that he smokes, but the fact he lied pisses me off. and also i heard him talking to his friend today, lecturing him about how smoking is bad, and after he stopped, he felt healthier what the fuck?
maybe your father is embarassed, and wants to set a good example for you??? maybe he made a mistake and got addicted, and doestn want people to know or be influenced by it???
