hmm im not sure where to begin. this is the first time ive posted on these forums and im not sure they are the right ones to be posting on. but ive heard alot about them so here i go. i hang out with this chick alot and sometimes it seems like we are together. we do the bf/gf stuff all the time like kissing and saying that we love eachother. but at times it seems like we are not together. so im really confused about what to think. maybe someone can help me out with this?
i'll tell you in my opinion the best advice i can give is to ask her not anyone else, because no one here knows how she feels try that and let us know whats up
Exactly....you have to ask her. Otherwise, there is no way of knowing. Just ask her and you wont be confused anymore.
Hi Oxblood420 I think you are the only one who can help yourself out here and it is not her nor anybody else, and maybe this is better than anything you would have wished for to happen. As you gotta be together with yourself in first range and live with this wonderful confusing strange and curious person called Oxblood420 for quite a while, and love him and be happy and know you are the best of the world to do so - even if the rest of the world seems to turn on terms of its very own. In the beginning and in the end, it is all about you. And all that bf/gf stuff is just another way to find who you are and embrace yourself completely and whatever life offers to you, to find wholeness inside. So being with her teaches you about who you are and as much as she is not what you expected her to be - you aren't either. Being alone teaches you about who you are just from another angle, but this is what you wanted and needed as much. You are the adventure and are the surprise yourself - and no guarantee here. And then you might find it is not really her who turns your world upside down, or makes it spin and swirl, or even makes it stand still. Just an idea!
