im friends with this girl, and i've known for some time that she likes me. whenever we got drunk she would try to kiss me. then one time, when i could tell that we were going to make out, i told her flat out that i dont like her in that way. we've hooked up a number of times now. last night, we actually 69'd. i did tell her, several times in the past, that i do not want a relationship with her. but i can't shake this immense guilt i feel for messing around with her feelings like this. am i an asshole? or am i overreacting?
she is going to think you are an asshole, but she knew the deal. I would not worry about it unless she is a nutter. If she goes cray about it, well you should have known better.
