I dont know why but in the relationship I'm in currently I'm finding it like very nerve racking/scary to make a move. Like its really weird, its like back when the first time I ever tried to make a move. Its a really weird feeling and I'm not sure why its happening. Any advice?
I'll be honest here, I'd reply but I don't know what you mean by "make a move." If you mean kissing then we can talk about this.. if you are talking about sex then I'll have to just be silent to this thread as I believe you are too young to be having sex anyway and just can't morally make myself give a 14 year old sex advice.
Just spend time with her until you feel comfort. Comfort is key. I am the same way as you bud, i hate making the first move. I always feel like a cock sucking dragon. Excuse my french. But its easy if you do. Kiss her neck. Girls eat that shit up, and it feels so good. (for me to). After that she will be begging to feel closer to you, then you can decide what to do from there lol peace, happy trails jacob fred
You sure would make a good Age Cop. You would be a member of the elite force of Age Police tasked with the enormous responsibility of preserving the moral integrity and purity of our children. As a member of the Age Police, you could fill any number of valuable societal functions including, but not limited to: - Checking the ID's of millions of underage children attempting to purchase alcohol and cigarettes. Then when you discover that their ID is fake, you get to lecture them on how they are "too young to be doing that stuff anyway", all along giving them a stern moral whipping with your Cat-o'-Nine-Not-So-Innocent-Children's-Castrated-Penises. - Be an abortion doctor helping all the teenage girls who were too young to be having sex anyway. You could even hang the fetuses on your wall as a "preventative tactic" against future unwanted pregnancies. - Eradicator of Rap Music. (yes, it's an official title. Kinda catchy, in fact it would make a good rapper name. The Eradicator. That would be you. And then you could use rap music to reach the youth and spread the message about how neither guns nor sex are cool for children to have, but something wholesome like teddy bears, are totally cool.)
Hah! I have legit reasons why I can't make myself do it. When I was 20 years old I was dating a 16 (was turning 17 in a month) year old and his mommy didn't like it too much. She confronted me and told me that if I didn't stop talking to her son that she would take legal action against me. Mind you, I had LITTERALLY never done anything physical with her son but because of the circumstances (he was on probation at the time) she could have brought it to court. So it's personal reasons, I could care less if anyone else gives him advice on sex or not.
