First Time Masturbator

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by spit'n'swallow, Dec 31, 2005.

  1. spit'n'swallow

    spit'n'swallow Member

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    OK, I'm 18. great, lifes all good. Only problem : i've never had an orgasim in my life, i've played it clean and have been doing Oral. Me and my boyfriend just got serious, so I think it is time to let him in. I just don't want to be embaressed. Anyone have a tip for getting orgasims without the guy? Guys, do you perfer anything?
     
  2. Barefoot_Surfer

    Barefoot_Surfer Member

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    My advice is just to relax and experiment. What works for one person may not work for another. The beauty of masturbation is the fact that you can do it on your own. After a while you will find what works for you and you can work with that. Masturbation is something you should not be ashamed off. Infact it is a healthy part of your sexuality and allows you to know what works for you sexually.

    As for the guy it really depends from guy to guy. You should talk to him about what he wants sexually and work it in with what you want. What is important is to have fun with each other as you both explore each other.
    Matt
     
  3. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    Follow the sensations. Find what works best for you. Put a lock on your door. Eliminate all destractions.
     
  4. MoonMaiden

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    Yup, you have explained well. Experement and find what works for you. Some people like penetration with fingers, other prefer just to stimulate the clitoris... have fun!
     
  5. MoonMaiden

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    Yup, you have explained well. Experement and find what works for you. Some people like penetration with fingers, other prefer just to stimulate the clitoris... have fun!
     
  6. akdjfaskdfjasdjflkdj

    akdjfaskdfjasdjflkdj Banned

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    If you want a guaranteed oragasm here is what you do. Tonight when you go to sleep start rubbing your clit and fingering yourself. Keep an eye on how long it takes you to come to the threshold of orgasm. Let's say it takes will take you 15 minutes. Some night when you are home with just your dad, tell him you are going to take a nap and for him to wake you at a certain time. Start masterbating about 2-3 minutes sooner that the time it took you to almost cum before. If all works out your dad will be walking in on you in the middle of your orgasm, but it will be to late to stop so you just keep moaning and cumming right in front of him. This is a fantastic turn on for both of you. Not only is being caught a turn on but the taboo of having your father seeing your naked body climaxing in full satisfaction is especially sexy.
     
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    buttrfly)i( Member

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    woah

    anyways i have one word.

    vibrator
     
  8. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

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    Why you perve! You better be kidding, and even then that wasn't even funny, it was just disturbing. Anyways, I'll have some pictures of myself up here by sometime, so that should help.
     

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