the perfect woman (for me, my ideal match in my opinion) would be petite, fairly to very short hair, funny, stunningly intelligent yet a little on the crazy side. she'd trip with me and smoke with me, and her sexual appetite would pretty much match mine. she would be more than willing to get plenty kinky in the bedroom. she'd love to be outdoors and would prefer spending time talking with people over watching television. she'd have an ecclectic taste in music, but with enough in common with my taste that we can agree on some things for the car. she wouldn't be too uptight to discuss sex with me and tell me what she wants from me, and because of that i'd be enough at ease myself to also feel confident enough to completely express my desires without being made to feel wierd. definitely would have to be at least somewhat into bondage. i wouldnt want a psycho, but she has to be extraordinary. not actually insane....but....unusual, interesting, alluring, and with a somewhat novel perception/view of the world. we'd see eye to eye on most spiritual and political matters. she would have high standards for personal behavior without becoming so judgmental that she'd copmlain about my friends. pretty eyes and long lashes, small breasts and a nice butt and legs. maybe some piercings and/or tattoos. no point to this really. just rambling. this is my ideal woman, the type of girl that i could fall in love with in less than a day. not saying this is the epitome of anything or that other types of girls are less attractive or unattractive to me, just saying if i could create a mate for myself out of thin air, this would be a great start. the sad thing is the more i think about this, the more i realize how close to this ideal my first girlfriend was. part of it is her fulfilling most of what it would take to be "ideal" for me, and part of it is probably her influence on what i find to be ideal. i'm sure it's a mixture, but most of this would have been the same had i typed it all out before ever meeting her. i said it was "the sad thing," and it is because ever since i broke up with her (a bit over two years ago) i've had the nagging feeling that she's the closest i'll ever find to being perfect for me, that she was the most beautiful and intelligent girl i will ever have the pleasure of knowing, let alone falling in love with. it went sour and there's no recovering it; i feel like it may well be all downhill from here. i very rarely meet girls i'm REALLY REALLY attracted to physically, when i do they're almost never my type, and when they are both of those things they are often unfortunately either involved with someone or whatever else. but i'm digressing from the original point of this post. though the post was pointless.....until now! so now that i've described most of what i would consider my ideal woman, describe what you would envision as your ideal woman or man? do you see yourself finding them ever? do you think you're already with them?
This is not going to be as in depth as nesta's was, but here ya go: My ideal woman would be about 5'5" because I'm short and she needs to be a little shorter than I am, for ergonomic convenience more than anything. She would have short, slightly above shoulder length, hair. Preferably blonde, but whatever. She would be fit, but certainly not "thin", because that just looks unhealthy in most cases. Her breasts don't need to be large, but in proportion to her ass, legs, waist, and all of that shit. Her most important physical attribute would be a proportionate head, because I hate big heads. As for personality: She would be very sweet, first and foremost. Intelligent, but not freakishly so. Dorky, in an endearingly cute way. By "dorky" I mean goofilly confident and not afraid to be weird and have off-the-wall opinions and views about the world around her. "Dorky" as in fun to goof around with and easy to pick on, but able to pick on me as well and very good at taking a joke and making fun of herself. She would be an all-out pothead and occasional psychonaut. She would have to be willing to let me spoil her whenever I feel the need. I would have to be able to give her shit and do shit for her without her feeling guilty, but at the same time, not using me for the material shit. She would have to be mildly shy, because I find this to be VERY sexy. She would have to have a varied taste in music, but not so varied that she would pop in a country cd, because I can't stand the shit. She would have to love dogs, especially my dog, Toto. She would have to be freaky and experimental in bed, or wherever we choose to fuck/make love. That's about it. At least, for now. The only girl I have ever known to be so close to this idealistic woman I speak of is a girl named Heather Chronic. I worked with her at K-Mart about 6 years ago and we were very close, but not dating or fucking. She knew how I felt, to an extent, but I never had the confidence to do anything about it back then. I haven't seen her in many years, but I still think about her every single day, literally. I even wrote some poetry about her when I was in the 10th grade, a year or two since I had seen her. Since then, I have come in contact with many people that know her, but have never been able to make contact with her again. I have come so close, even found where she works, but by the time I try to visit her, she is fired or quits or something. I can still remember her face to a T and even remember her voice. She is the only girl I have ever been attracted to in a way that wasn't completely sexual. She even had the perfect last name, "Chronic".
I'm going to try to describe my ideal man but I end up rarely going for my ideal because I tend to let my heart lead me around (a problem I'm currently working on.) Physically he'd be between 5'8" and 6', he'd have short dark spikey hair and fair skin, he'd be skinny (not scrawny), with warm eyes and have a cute bubble ass. Sexually, he'd want sex on a regular basis and he'd be able to last at least up to an hour without including foreplay into that number. He'd be open to discuss things no matter how taboo they might seem to the public. Even if he wasn't really too into something but wasn't outright grossed out by it, he'd have to be willing to compromise (meaning, I'd do something for him that didn't nessisarily turn me on as a trade). It'd be more important that he had the same list of things he would never do then an actual list on this he'd do. He would be interested in an open enough relationship that we'd be able to possibly bring other sexual partners into our relationship but at the same time would do it in a loyal way and talk about everything first. He'd have to be okay with me touching his ass (such a hard quality to find in a guy), since I love to play with a guys ass. As far as personality, he'd have to be romantic and love to kiss and cuddle. The kind of guy who spouts random mush as much as I do and blushes at least a little when I do say something really mushy and cute. Someone who doesn't roll over and fall asleep as soon as he's done having sex. He'd have to be spontanious and want to travel, seen new places, meet new people. He'd be goofy and love to laugh at stupid things. He has to be interested in cooking since I hate cooking anything more then baking cookies or brownies and breakfast foods. Have I met anyone like this? Yes, I have. I'm not currently with him for reasons out of my control at the moment but I know that he feels that I seem as perfect for him as he seems for me. Only time will tell where this connection with him will go. Right now I'm just happy that I have him in my life.
My ideal women would be smart, sexually liberated with a great rack, an incredible sense of humour, a desire to experience all life has to offer and red hair.
My ideal woman would eb about 5'9"ish, have blonde hair dyed dark brown, turquoise eyes, be Finnish, etc..
good point i forgot to mention. she'd have to love animals and maybe be up for a dog and/or cat, but not go crazy like we're living in a barn....
its good to know what you want and have specific things in mind that are key for an ideal mate, but at the same time if you're too specific and too rigorously focused on particulars you can end up passing by someone that could be great for you just because you're too picky. these are things i really like and most of them can spark my interest a lot, and i'm not going to say i'm not a bit too picky or that i dont get too hung up on finding the "perfect" girl. however thats not to say i dont recognize the fact that i could fall in love with someone completely different and that i am completely closed to the idea of being with someone very different from this.
My ideal man would be Active but not overly muscular. Hed like healthy, natural exercise, like walking, running... Hed love animals and great literature Hed be kind and have feelings. He wouldnt be afraid to cry, or to admit that i was right and he was wrong, or that he was sorry... Hed have a wish to protect me and make me happy. Hed be more intelligent than me. Hed be quick and clever, good with words, able to put forward a decent argument. Hed have points of view on subjects ive never even thought about. Hed be patient, and able to bear and even admire my at times unbearable and shameful impatience, paranoia, quick-temperedness and exaggerated emotion. Hed be honest Hed have the energy, enthusiasm and innocence of a small child and the inner strength and courage of a grown man He wouldnt be obssessed with the material. He would often philosophise Hed be passionate but gentle in bed. Hed always make love and never have sex. He would wish to make love to me often Hed have a love of travel and want to see different countries every few months. And for looks- dark hair and dark eyes and 6fts the ideal height Thats about all i can think of. Xx
Argh...me with a penis would be my worst nightmare. Me in a strong mans body, with more testosterone, would be dangerous, and twice as obnoxious. Unless you mean itd just be your body only with a penis...in which case thats jus scary
My ideal woman would be someone who appreciates me for being me, of course it would help if she looked like Alyssa Milano.
*looks at the bottom two lines of her signature* "I feel like you're the male version of me." - me "i feel the same way i'm you with a penis" - shall remain nameless That's what *I* meant by it... can't speak for Zeppelina.
I would like a guy who is kind and compassionate is preferably a vegetarian or vegan loves laughing and who can make me laugh is quite a geek, ... an endearing, charming paul rudd type of geek is affectionate, who will do silly stuff like dance with me in the kitchen is generous and gregarious is loyal is intelligent and who loves learning new stuff and then if things got serious someone I can travel with, build a life with and maybe have a family with - i want a big rambling house full of kids and pets and noise and laughter, so it would be good if he wanted something like that too. physically - well if I ever meet a guy who is all of the above, the physical parts don't matter - i'm jumping him but as this is a dream...tall, with striking eyes and a chest i can cuddle up/lean on overall maybe just someone i can take care of and who will take of me too.
