Forced Kissing

I'm sorry nepenthean, you're such a sensitive bitch you even put me to shame.



I'm sticking with comic shop nerd for you. Why don't you stick the pic in your sig

 

hahah

 

sundew I really loved what you had to say. Actually everyone had awsome stuff to say but this one stood out to me. i was just like *o* lol

 

well I guess the next time we see this guy will be on CNN when he gets arrested and commited to the nearest lunatic assylum. I hate the thought of my daughters being out with guys like this around. SCARY.

 

Thanks sunshine'sbutterfly,

I've seen the results of more than one girl/woman who has been raped or similiar and it affects so many aspects of their lives in potentially horrible ways. Psychologically, socially, educationally, even financially etc.. The list goes on, it's not an isolated thing, something like that affects the victim, their family and friends, future relationships...everything.

This isn't an abstract intellectual concept for debating or arguing over fine points.

It's easy:

If you are a person who agrees with Nepenthean, would you let your own daughter be forceably molested or raped by someone like him?

It's a pretty simple question and there's a pretty simple answer I think.

 

After what you wrote on Page 5 i couldnt read any more, you are a sick guy who needs help, i dont give a flying fuck about all your big words and that they all go straight to a four letter word that has been said over and over again RAPE.

Personaly if i knew you and im sure a lot of other on here would agree, you wouldnt be breathing let along walking or being able to harm a lass in any way, you think your the hard man cause you can physicaly control a lass , let me tell you something , your no harder than a dog shit is cement,

Think about the Mental damage you can do to the lass, you do now many lass's comit SUICIDE due to rape and its not just the lass its their familys and partners, many can never have a bloke touch them or have sex with them,


YOUR A FUCKING TURD WHO DESERVES TO BE PINED DOWN A FORCED TO DO STUFF AGAINST YOUR WILL,

 

Quit it, all of you. I don't care how much you disagree with this guy he's stating experiences/opinions, and you're flaming. No matter how inappropriate you may think this poster is, the ones arguing with him are the only ones breaking the rules. Keep up the flaming and see where it gets you...if you want to discuss what this man is saying then do so, if all you can muster is personal attacks on his character than thats harassment, a bannable offense.

 

Sorry bud but Harasemnt means a constand go, what most of us are saying is he needs help,

 

Dangermoose I totally agree that most of us could have been more constructive in our criticism of nepenthean. However, in reading a lot of his replies, I somehow think hes asking for it. Like I said in an earlier post, I would have hesitated to post messages that basically make a fool of him if I hadn't read his attacks on everyone else in this thread. If nepenthean want's to post threads like this he needs to be more thick skinned.

And I know a few girls that have been absolutely devastated by this 'forced kissing', so I think a lot of the 'harrassers' in here are just trying to defend people's welfare.

 

Well, I think what he was asking for was a debate carried out in the respectful, intelligent manner, rather than to have other people insult him, call him names, and what-have-you. I agree with moose on this. While I can understand the frustration and the urge to disagree with Nepenthean(I got his name right, yes?), simply flaming him is not cool at all. After all, you must at least give him credit for always being polite and grateful of our participation in this discussion. That is to be respected. I only hope I'd been respectful enough in my replies(only a couple, but still...) to his posts.

The reason why I haven't posted on this thread up until now is because I haven't had the time or energy to spend on something that essentially deserves a lot of dedication. I must admit that I do not agree with Nepenthean on this particular topic, but I also know that simply flaming him is not the ideal method in projecting my own views. I know this from my own experience with people making insulting comments about me. Anyway, I stopped posting on this thread because, if I did add more of my thoughts on here, I wanted it to sound respectful and intelligent. And achieving that can, at times, be a very time consuming process, especially when one's mother tongue isn't English.

I think the wording is very important especially when we're talking about topics like this one, even in a free speech environment such as Hip Forums. Free speech does NOT equal to "just say whatever, and not care about other people's feelings". Expressing your views is great. But one must not forget to show respect even to those one disagrees.

 

Well AT I stopped posting in this thread because I felt the user in question was not taking any relative critisism to heart and seemed more interested in a reaction and mind games. When the words "those dirty little sluts only get what they deserve" were uttered I came to the realisation this guy is just a sick fuck, not simply disturbed but an out right danger to women. I stopped talking because I know the next things out of my mouth would likely get me booted from the boards. Not only is he not deserving of civil discourse it's dangerous for him to recieve it because it only reinforces his internal and highly elequent justifications. Do you civily discuss murder with a murderer? do you allow him the benifit of the doubt that perhaps he is justified in what he says? no, because he's a fucking murderer. You lock him up, and if still wants to discuss the matter you give him a shrink. Period.

 

Yeah man it really shows love for sombody yanking their hair and pinning thier arms when you barely know them. That must b tru love.

 

Yovo has just said what i tried to but i was FARRRRRRRRR to wound up at the time,

 

Same here, except the 'fucking murderer' and lock him up part. That was a bit uncalled for

 

if you meet some chick and she denies your advances. then i think it would not only be normal but humane to just back off.
playing rough and such can only really be safely used in a relationship where the people are close and know eachother really well, more importantly their limits. you have to be able to tell when a person is just joking when they won't allow you to show affection or if they really mean get the fuck off me before i mace you.

basically...what he's describing, "forcing right up to sex"...that's..just...well, that's rape.
so congratulations on being a total ass.

 

I wasn't calling him a murderer, I was using the analogy that you don't reason with a murder, so why would you try to reason with a rapist?

sorry for the confusion

peace

 

I like it when the man takes control...but if you pulled my hair and pinned my arms after I'd denied your advances...I would take drastic measures. And you would be terribly sorry.

 

ditto.

 

I got what your saying. And i agree with the other stuff you said, you wish you could come up with something that might actually make him not hurt anyone else, but it seems like almost anything would just either make him do it more to reinforce his veiws to himself, or to help his self esteem, whichever you had offended by trying to talk him into having some compassion.

 

Ditto