Why is it so bloody hard to find 'the one'?

Is it because no one that perfect really exists? Is it because we set the bar too high? Is it because there is no such thing as 'the one' at all?
Getting attatched sucks too. Love is so confusing. It drives me mad. I hate being love sick and unable to eat or sleep. ANd I often find myself like that when I am IN LOVE.

Ok. Bottom line. SO far, all the hot guys i've been with have been assholes in some way ORRR i've dated an UNhot guy that just worshipped the ground i walked on. why can't the HOT ones be all crazy about me?!?!!?!?

perhaps some people sabotage their relationships unconciously, because of this need to find the one. and how the HELL are you supposed to know when u've found 'the ONE' anyway!??!?!?!?!?!

ugh!

 

what?!?!?!?!? what would make you say THAT?

 

to quote robin williams in Good Will Hunting...
"You're not perfect sport, and let me save you the suspense, this girl you've met she's not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other."

perfection is based on you. my idea of perfect is not the same as my mom, my brother or my sister. find someone good for you. that's all that matters.

 

Unfortunetely, you can't click your fingers and have your soulmate appear. People experience this at different times and i'm afraid patience is the key. My only advice, is to fill you life with many things, so you are not focusing just on this area. You'll make yourself crazy. Many believe, that you find true love when you stop looking so hard. In the meantime, just enjoy the other areas of your life and try to make those as fulfilling as you can

 

Trickster said almost the exact thing as I was going to say.

It happens when you least expect it, when you aren't even looking for it. At least, that's how it happened for me.

 

One person can't fulfill all your needs. That's why you shouldn't just have one.

 

One true love, more soulmates or kindred spirits.

It almost doesn't seem as special when you say there is more than one person for you.

 

Beyond the Clouds doesn't believe in love and he thinks all married people are old and boring.

 

Exactly. I'm the mack daddy, a pimp, a playa, nome sayin'?

 

Is that you in your new sig?

 

No, that's Bam Margera.

 

Oh. I thought maybe it was you.

 

I do feel lucky...without a doubt. And I really don't mind being old and boring (even though I don't feel like I am). I quite like it actually.

 

I've found someone who seems perfect for me. He makes my days worth living even when he's not around. I just smile all the time even when something bad happens, all I have to do is think of how wonderful he makes me feel, the beautiful things he says to me and his cute little dimples when he smiles (awwww) and everything feels okay. He makes me want to be a better person too. I guess only time will tell to find out if he's "the one" for me.

I wouldn't mind growing "old and boring" with him.. although he's not really a boring type.. he's a little on the wacky side *whispers* Honestly, I think he's a little bit crazy... but that's okay.. it just means he won't be surprised when he finds out that I'm a mental case.

 

LOL I often wonder this...I acctually think there are many "ones" in a persons lifetime...some grow apart...some grow stonger.

I belive in destiny but not so much where everyone finds "the one"

I think it's very much a journey, even though some people dont come out of it with "that one" they do come out of it with lessons and hopefully a couple good friends...

Best advice...dont go looking foe love...let it happen and enjoy your journey

 

Population of the Earth is over 6 milliards, so it was enough hard to meet soul mate. I know it from own experience. A theory of probability shows that the more variant you will sort out the more precise result you will get. I sorted out many variants during long time.

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