Letting go

For me, the more you get to know the person you're with, and the more comfortable you become around them, the easier it is to be yourself. I'd say try experiencing things that make you nervous together...like "you show me, i'll show you" type of stuff.

Also, the philosophy of just tackling your fears head on works wonders. Once a guy has you naked in his bed, i doubt a misplaced hair or smudged eyeliner will drive him away, let alone the sight of you masturbating in front of him. Once you see that it makes him wild, itll be funfor both of you.

 

im like that too- thats why i do it with the lights off

 

Yes! I've noticed this to be true. Thanks.

 

first off i'm not good at giving advice cause i'm shy and quite scared of commitments from anyone.
But. the term " letting go " is something you and even I need to embrace with zeal.
I really dont care to much about how I look and perhaps thats my problem in this world, but when it comes to laying down with someone else I myself start getting wrapped up in how can I please this person and when I start " THINKING " I start to lose focus of my own pleasures and I can not perform the way I know I can.
While I just know its not a bad thing to want to please your partner to the fullest or to beg for acceptance in this world , I do feel that if we cant just let ourselfs go and be who we are inside we can never really be free. So my advice is.
Once you find someone you can hug and kiss and go beyond into your world. Let yourself go and be who you are inside to the fullest, holding nothing back. Get wild , get carnal , let the beast out and devower them. Then aftewards, when its all over and your both relaxxed. Then ask them if it was all cool or not. If their turned off, oh well life goes on and thier not the one your looking for. If thier like " Awsome..just Awsome " you got yourselfs a winner.

 

hmm i know wut u mean...i kind of used to be like that...like embarassed to let go because of what he'll think of me. but you just have to get really be comfortable around your partner, and make sure you accept him for who he is, and he accepts YOU for who u are, no matter what you do.

you just have to try everything...i think sex is better when you let yerself go and get lost in the moment..u jus have to 4get about everything and just think about one thing.....SEX! its like a wonderful escape. you can just act however you want...i mean i used to be embarassed to do some dirty talk, even though deep inside it turned me on, but i jus did it in the heat of the moment and my b/f did it with me and we just discovered that it turns us on. so you have to explore all sides of your personality....when i started discovering and exploring my sexual side, i felt more complete of who i was.
plus, its fun

goodluck babe