help please! on meeting a girl

hey everyone theres this girl who is absolutely gorgeous who i often see in the hallways of my school, but i dont know her name, lives etc. at all. i dont have any classes with her and have never seen her at parties or other things. do guys have any tips on how i could start something? i mean i only just walk by her in the hallways. haha my friend today pushed me in to her in the hall so i guess thats some progress.

 

coming from a teenage girl...

just smile at her...

that would do it for me...if she smiles back then next time say hello and introduce yourself.

 

word

Smile, eye contact, and confidence

 

anybody know how to not be nervous in these situations? i can make eye contact and stuff but I can't smile or talk because I'll just like freeze....

 

yeah, it's called valium. but seriously, just suck it up!...and say hey, how's it goin'? if she likes you, she's probably just as nervous as u are (some people hide it better than others). go get 'er, tiger!

 

haha...well i don't mean just nervous...i mean like freak out! if I see a really hot girl walking by i'll make eye contact....but deep down inside i feel like my chest is going to explode. i get sweaty and shaky....plus i have no idea what to say....one time i did have the guts to say hi and that was that......she just walked away and said bye.....and i just stood there like a moron...

 

practice...do you have any friends that are girls?

talk to them...ask them what to do.

If not then I say rehearse what your gonna say...dont be too shy, and if you are then work it out! If she's not into it then take the hint and say "ok sorry" she'll probably feel like an asshole...but move on and try out someone eles...just get your feet in the water

 

well......i don't know what to say...lol....."hey i like your hair"?

 

From the campus newspaper... http://www.gateway.ualberta.ca/view.php?aid=5326

It was a lot better to read in print, cause they put some things into boxes, but I am sure it reads just fine...

 

Think of the worst case scenario. If you can handle that, if you wouldn't die, then know you'll be fine.

 

ok...thanks for your help peeps

 

Go for it or you'll end up like me..i graduated from high school a virgin and never having had a g/f, and things are still that way for me.

im still crippled by utter fear when it comes to this sort of thing.

 

One day, you'll meet someone who you will feel completely comfortable with and trust implicitly. You will feel ok telling them how you feel and they will understand.
It will happen for you, just go with the flow until then and don't force it to happen. You will meet that right person to be with the first time and it will be just right

 

yea thats really true...

-wrote that about the imagine the worst case scenario, it cant be that bad-

but i think you have to make efforts, i dont think you should be scared of rejection either, i just got turned down by this guy in my class cuz he had a gf lol and its not awkard between us because of it, i'm just a bit bumed i dont get to sleep with him but life goes on
you never know til you try
just say hi and smile... trust me a friendly smile will totally make her notice you

 

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thats just it dude. go up to here and say hi. introduce yourself. say somehting silly. ask her for her name. then say you gotta go somewhere. say good bye. and walk away.

 

Just one more quickie here....sorry for reviving this thread....

But does approaching more "shy" women work differently? There's this one girl who just transferred to my high school and she's new so she doesn't have many friends. She looks lonely.

But I think she's gorgeous....and I want to come off as not just another "friend". Any info?

 

chappy looks like Angelina Jolie

 

in the end it is pussy u want,not nessisarily that girl. start going 2 partys and getting rly plastered. i know this is bad advise but one time i did Xtacy and it turned me into
casanova, next thing i know fingerbang here and hipthrusts there, X takes away all ur imbaressment it is fucking weird

 

i have one girl in the mind, i started to talk with her a little bit, she was supose to see if ther's a job free where she works for me ( and i really wanted that job by the way, it's in the bell center and the rolling stones were coming), so after she checked and all and i dont really remember how, but we dont even say a word anymore, exept sometimes: do you have a cigaret?

FUCK!

 

Some times i just look right at the girl and say "wow, your so pretty i just had to say something". You might try passing her a note with 'hi, i'm jo, my grandpa told me if i didn't tell you my name, it was my fault you didn't know me'. Then smile and say what's your name, see ya later. The next day you make up and excuse to pass her another note, mabe with a joke on it, Use her name and sign yours.
Then lay low a few days. Maube if you see her you can wave briefly and use her name in public. Next week pass her a different note if you want, but NEVER MENTION DATING for the first couple of weeks at least.

I always write too much.