Sure, it might be childish

make sure you get your money first...

 

Oh I'll get my money.

My hand is strong.

 

what are friends for? i wish my friends ex gf's come over and sleep with me!

 

He is the type of guy that you kick yourself for after. I honestly thought that I could trust him, and he just misued that trust to boost his own ego.

 

Lesson learned then?

 

Sadly... I just wish that I would have paid attention to the rules. Never date an individual you currently attend class with. There is nothing like having to see the face of an ex daily for the next three years.


I am sure that Tuesday will prove to be a new learning experience when we are all in the same room at the same time.

 

I love your modesty, Le_Coyote


Most of you seem to be either misreading the original post, or taking the entire situtation out of context. I slept with a mutual friend of both my ex and myself simply because I wanted to sleep with him. He has had feelings for me long before I even began dating the other individual, yet, did not make them clear until after our break up. He is the one who called my ex boyfriend and told him that we slept together, not me. Though I have seen him in class I have not spoken to my ex boyfriend since he picked up the Christmas gift on December twenty sixth.

 

If you read the post I never said I called. I merely said the call was made. I was in the room when the phone call was placed and I simply listened due to it being put on speaker phone. I was one of three individuals in the room at the time, one of them being the friend who made the call.

If anyone had a reason for the call, it was the friend himself. He was the one who has had to sit and listen to the ex boyfriend make negative comment after negative comment about me, behind my back. He was fed up with the bullshit, so he did what he wanted.

 

"Having the friend say", was not meant to imply that I told him to say anything, though I do understand the misconception. Personally, I'm slightly upset at the fact that it happened because he said a little much.

I forget that figures of speech and lack of voice tone over the internet can cause faulty perceptions.

 

This thread was right!

I'm reading some pretty childish shit right now.

 

Believe me, as bold as I am, if I had called him up, I would have stated, "I called him up and told him point blank, "I slept with ____". As upset as I am with the ex boyfriend over what he has done, if I wanted to cause drama, I could have done A LOT worse than listening to what the friend told him. If you want to guilt me, then blame me for having a phone. Personally, my plot was simply for the friend to get us in the same room at the same time so we could speak and draw some closure.


There are two sides to every story, but he'll never admit that he stoled, lied and plotted through out the relationship. Hell, the friend could have done what he did just based on the fact that Mike owes him and every other person in the free world money. His best friend nearly stopped speaking to him over a money issue. A certain someone does not know that when you have a debt, you are obligated to pay back money that is borrowed. However, that is besides the point.

If you knew him, you would agree with me. Of course, I forget that there is the unwritten code of siding with a fellow male ape.

 

Might be childish? That's just a bit of an understatement don't you think?

 

Good, then feel free to stop responding.

 

coyote, back off

no one's gonna win here

 

its no mystery girls will use sex to get even with men, the sex that occurs in this process is often meaningless for the woman and liberating at the same time. i enjoy helping women in achieving their goal without complicating matters. call it a symbiotic affair which i am now opening up for whomever is interested

 

i'm sorry for your trauma, but i'm adoring your attitude lately.

 

lol. i love all the virtuous men posting here...

 

lol

 

word. Kinda funny how it split into men vs women
because men never do anything petty, especially when it comes to sex/the bedroom

 

no, never. i've never once in my time with my older brothers fucking over every female stupid enough to get within their radius seen a man do something petty and childish. men are such victims to females...