Do you think its ok if two people have sex for the first time as good friends? (aka not in a relationship)
why not? if they don't feel constrained by what society deems acceptable, then there's nothing wrong. Just as long as they're both on the same page ideologically.
hm... usually 'good friends' isn't a mutual thing... there's nothing wrong with it, but tread lightly.
Nothing wrong with it, just don't expect more to come out of it once everything is said and done. I mean it! Don't! :$
yeah, that definately would be a mistake. the only mistake i made was thinking he actually liked me (though i didn't expect or want a relationship). but he's one of my best friends, so its all good.
i find that when u have sex with people, you tend to get emotionally attached to the person especially if its your first time, like having sex with someone connects you in more way than one, and since your already friends with this person, i think u may find it hard not to feel more emotionally between eachother i mean, if u pick up some guy randomly and have sex with him, and never see him again, i dont know if there would be that connection there, but because u already know them i think there would be more. Giving someone so much trust in seeing you naked and sharing something like that, i think, would definatly bring you closer, and not just as friends Love Amanda
just remember to be in the moment and to not expect anything to come from it...if it does great but dont expect it...there is alot of growing and learning to do this will only be lesson 1
