I have been lucky enough to find "The One" at such a young age. My boyfriend and I started going out in August. So we've been dating a little over 5 months, adn known each other for about 7. I think he is the one. There's no one in this world I have had a better connection with. He understands me and everything I do, and vise versa. Sometimes I think he knows me better than I do. AND... he's awesome in bed. Amazing. He musta been first in line when God was handing out the penal flesh, because he is hung. Which only adds to the attraction. A guy that can be there for you on an emotional level, and at the drop of a hat, rock your world in the bedroom, is quite a catch. I hope you all find the same.
Ah, thats lovely I believed Id found "the one" at 15, but i think probably most people feel that falsely at one time or another. I rushed into it blindly and completely switched off my guard. Im now heading for 18, and am in a much more pratical and realistic relationship, which is based primarily on a steady mental connection. I have grown to love this man...whereas before, when i fooled myself into believing it was "love at first sight" for no apparent reason(despite the fact we had nothing in common, and the man(boy) didnt have a single trait actually I admired) i grew to actively dislike him. So i suppose my message is, never underestimate loves power. It will take you where you are meant to go, NO MATTER WHAT happens. Do not, however, become so overhwelmed by it all that you cease to draw logical conclusions, as i did. And also, dont foget to continue loving yourself just as much as him in all the frenzy. Xx
I know everybody else is going to say this, so don't hate me: well, it sounds nice but let me just tell you that eventually it's going to turn out not so great because you are so young no matter how much you love each other, no matter how many times he says he wants to marry you, no matter how much you guys think you are true love, one of you is going to break up with the other out of curiousity of what else is out there. i was a sophomore in high school and i thought that i had found "the one". It really did seem like that too. we did everything together, we had everything in common, he was a great lover(amazing in bed ) and i loved him to death. I couldn't imagine life without him. He even cried when i had to leave him for a week to go to my dad's. i would have done anything for him and he would have done the same to me. we were together for 18 months and after being together for 12 months i started having doubts and wondering if i should check out what else was out there. Anyways, i decided that he was the one and nobody else could ever take his place and then 6 months later he had the same doubts and ended up breaking up with me. He says that he hopes we can be together in the future, but i don't want to be with him in the future. I'm not really his true love if he has to question whether or not he wants me. anyways my advice to you is to enjoy every day as it comes. A love like that is so wonderful and pure, but do not expect it to last forever. Just enjoy everything that you two do and never take it for granted. Maybe your love will work out and you will be together forever or something like that, but i wouldn't get my hopes up because that makes the breakup hurt that much worse. So good luck to you and i hope that things work out for you two
Sounds like you're in a great relationship. Treasure every moment of it... Now, unfortunately, I'm going to have to agree with sniffmagikmarkrs. I met "the one" (or so i thought) at 14. We were totally in tune with one another. Loved each other dearly, did everything together, great sex, soulmates, the whole nine yards. We dated for 10 years, with many plans for the future and both wanted to get married, and had talked about things we wanted to do for our wedding. Then one day, the "curiosity" sniffmagikmarkrs mentioned kicked in. We had both been virgins when we met, and it suddenly freaked him out that he had never been with anyone else and that if we followed through on our plans, he never WOULD be with anyone else. While I found this prospect very romantic, it freaked him out, and he had a sort of midlife crisis where he broke up with me to "experiment and see what else is out there", and changed his whole life around. I was devastated. We had been together so long and made so many plans, and now they were all in the trash. He tried to say that this was something he needed to do and that this was not the end of the road for us.... That was about 2 1/2 years ago, and we don't see each other or speak anymore. And as much as I thought he was the one, I could never go back. You grow, you experience new things in life, and move on. I had always thought we were lucky to have met at such a young age, but I've come to realize that that's not a good thing. You should experience other people and other things before you meet that one, so that one of you won't wake up one day wondering what they might be missing out on. I don't want to spoil things for you. Enjoy what you have with each other and treasure every moment together. But I wouldn't set all of my heart and expectations on being together forever, especially since you met so young.
