I have always been very attracted to the hippy type girls, whether it be in their style, tastes, or personality. The only thing is many other guys are very attacted to them too. I know some hippy girls that I would really like to go further and form a 'relationship' with but it seems very difficult to get the girl interested in to me. She is always being approached by other guys and get's into conversations with these guys. I don't know how I could 'stand above' the rest. I mean I prefer to be myself and don't feel like I really need to 'impress' her all that much. I guess my question for the hippy girls is what kind of guys were you into and how did they get your attention, and also if you have any advice for me that'd help.
Trust me Wilso, a girl is a girl. Aproach her like a woman, instead of like a hippy. Use some strategy, go to places hippie chicks like to hang out, health clubs, yoga classes, hippy book stores. Places where you can strike up a conversation easily, don't worry about a line. Just be yourself, there are lots of easy ways to strike up conversations at places like this, find some kinda common interest and run with it. Exude confidence, and if you don't have it, try faking it... just don't act too smug. Best advice I can give is practice makes perfect, don't worrry about screwing things up a couple times... it happens to the best of us, you can at least make it out with some new hippy friends. Hippy friends have friends right?
I know what you mean about the other guys and stuff. Hippies are hot. Thats why you need to out-hippy them. If they wear a head band, you wear a tye-dye. If they wear a tye-dye, you wear a dashiki. You need to be ruthless man, ruthless.
you're kidding me, right? i guess i dont understand the whole "having a type" to be attracted to thing. my advice... would be mui's. all the "hippy" style chicks i know smoke lots of pot and drink lots of wine coolers. but yeah, if that's what you're into hehehe what if you were like, "hey, you look like you haven't washed your hair in weeks, babe." she could take that as a compliment in the utmost. or maybe "mmmm the scent of your feet tingles my nose from afar" or something like that. nah i got nothin against hippies (hence, my presense on this very forum). but um... women is women. aint nothin different about picking up different styles. they're all individual minds, you know?
just be natural. don't go and insult things she probably thinks (if you have hints from things like patchs and bumper stickers and what not). and don't just be "hey, baby, my place or yours?" or some lame line. just talk to her like any other person and say "hey you want to go hang out with me at the park sometime or something?" or something to that effect.
soulshine is better than moonshine bro. let your self shine and if you two dont click, then its for the best.
Dont change at all...dont try to impress her by being something that your not. If your yourself then you'll find a girl you like and she'll like you for you ( I know it sounds corny but its true).
I guess I'm a little of the "hippy" type of girl although maybe not because I'm certainly not approched often at all! so anyways, I am attracted to guys who are into the same things I am. Also, seeing as I love music more than almost anything, a guitar player or some kind of musicain is very attractive. But every girl and every guy is different. All you can do is be your sweet little self, like everyone else said, and if you already kind of know her it'll be easier and hopefully more comfortable. definitely listen to Lodui, he's got it right so there's no sense in me repeating it. Good advice is to be true to yourself and good luck.
seriously dude, it is wrong that you wuld be attracted to a girl because she is a 'hippy' whatever that means anyway. you do not have to look like a hippy to be a hippy, and some girls who look like hippies are doing it because they know guys like it. you will restrict yourself be having a type, if you look outside the barrier adn boundary you have set up for yourself you will be surprised.
1. Listen to maryfairy. 2. Don't try to be sexy - or at least, don't make it obvious. That's something that's a big turn off in my hippy chick circle. 3. Openminded, good listeners - and I mean really listen - do well with lots of people.
