Oh, don't worry. There really isn't much of a loop. I threw it out a while ago, since it was giving me a rash.
and unfortunally that is true for a lot of people in the world. they have to make other people feel bad (or try to) to validate their self worth. oh well. such is the ways of life. as for true idiots... they dont make me feel any better or worse about myself. they just annoy me.
Exactly. I caught her in her contradiction. In one post she said I was annoying, so I said use ignore function, and she said "no idiots make me feel better about myself". Hm. Very very revealing sequence of events. And now she wants to put me into a pod, probably to try to contain me since I am threatenning to her. Ruski, any thoughts on this? This is a golden opportunity for developing self-awareness.
im not sure what a pod is. an ipod? a pea pod? in any case... im reminded of the 10 year old boy that gets molested and beat up by his daddy.... cries at home and goes to school and beats up on 6 year old boys. oh well.
nup. like i said, some of your previous posts told me you were an annoying person. but i never got personally irritated. it takes a lot to annoy me. im actually quite calm, even to the point of happy. seems you took my comment pretty hard though... hence all these follow ups
No you never said it in that way. You said I was annoying. Being annoyed is an emotion. "Irritated" "bothered" "aggravated" "agonized". So if you say someone is annoying, that implies an emotional response to their behavior, ie, they annoy you. Someone isn't annoying unless they annoy. So in order for you to make that statement chances are I annoy you. You keep trying to increase your self worth. Do you have low self-esteem?
haha i wasnt referring to you trish but ok... wax on lyrical.. astound me my statement was a statement. to say if there is any feeling or history behind it really isnt your call. doesnt anybody know about objectivity anymore? i rarely would post something on here that meant anything to me personally. i recently have in a pm but that has been once this month.
Unfortunately, since humans are not statues, it's impossible for any human being to be completely objective, especially when insulting someone else.
nope im very well rounded. thanks for caring. annoying is an adjective. i dont have to feel it to recognise it. thats all for now. thanks come again.
In order for you to "think I was annoying" (your words) I'd have to cause slight irritation to you (another) by troublesome, often repeated acts. Otherwise your statement would have been "I always saw that this person was annoying to others." or "I recognized that people were annoyed by this person." which you did not make, but are trying to change your statements into this. Well if you don't have low self-esteem, they why insult another person, and when your insults were easily turned aside try to start making yourself feel better (you made statements about this, which is very revealing) at their expense? Seems like you have some issues that you're trying to cover up with some faux logic and rhetoric. I hope you can at least be honest with yourself about this.