Many of the members of my subconscious have been having a debate recently. The issue: Do I want a girl with my mind or with my penis? Do all men want girls with their minds or just for pleasure? This question is seriously disturbing me, because I don't know the answer. I feel extremely sad when I sit next to girls talking in class sometimes. I feel that it is just my hormones and my desire for pleasure that is making me feel this way. I don't want to meet a girl just for sex. I don't care about sex. I really care about having a deep and emtional relationship, with and only with a girl. But I am wondering if this want is really me, or is it just my body? This is one of the reasons I am so depressed. I wonder if love even exists. The word is thrown around so much today it has no meaning when a stranger says it. I wish it was clear, that the only time I ever want to be with women is when I feel sexual desire. It is clear to me that almost all friendships in High School begin almost only on what a person looks like, and then their personality is judged. Who gets more attention, the attractive or the lesser attractive students? Who is always occupied with a social life? So my fear is this: If High School is this awful, whats it like in real life? Can somebody convince me that there is more to relationships and love than chemical induced delusions of want by the body and loose pleasure seeking morals?
Your only 15 and full of raging hormones...trust me, life is so much better after high school. Hang in there!
Life sucks if you don't try to live one. Find something you love, do it, get good at it. And buy sour patch kids. Have fun, because fun is not fun without times that are bad/not fun. The good times are only good because there's bad times. Highschool years are years to remember, and years that are important for education. I sound like a mom, but that's okay.
What you say is partly true.. Yes, life begins after high school but life is fucking awsome my friend! I LOVE life! I love to feel mud in between my toes, I love to explore nature, I love to explore people, life is what *you* make of it.... I remember when I was 15...I thought life SUCKED ASS~ Man, how things change. Im 28 now and Im always telling myself...its ok if I don't get that job, or I don't get that money , or I loose my car or my house, or if I loose everything as long as I have nature and myself to just "be" You really have to take a step back and slow down to see just how beautiful and wonderful things really are around you.
i really like your outlook on life YBH. i know for me, nature can sometimes be a great way to just help me relax and realize how good life is, and just think of all that is good. although i havent been out of high school that long, i can already tell that life is so much better after it...just get through and do whatever helps you get by, until you can live your life how you want to. and highschool girls can be really moronic to...
first of all dude - desire for pleasure is not necessarily a bad thing. As long as you try to avoid hurting anyone, then it's ok to let yourself desire and to satisfy that. Joy is an amazing feeling, let yourself experience it and i am in no way a man, but answering in the place of one, can't you want someone with your body and your mind? Like you can be just as happy ripping off their clothes as lying in their arms and talking about the deepest things on your mind. Or you can get equal joy from a night of slow, sweet sex as you can get being dorky and just mucking around with them I think that if you can find someone that gets you emotionally and physically and who you get in return then maybe you can call that love. And you need both the emotional and the physical parts or else it can't really be love. (and of course that's a really cheesy, basic generalisation - love involves many more things like mutual respect and so on, but my main point is that if you can find someone who you desire with your mind and body for their mind and body and they feel the same about you then yes, i think you can have love and yes, I think the word can have meaning.)
I read this as: Do I want a girl whose mind is like mine, or whose penis is like mine? If you can find a girl whose penis is like yours, it's probably toolmaggot. She's the only girl I know of with a penis.
hell nooo!!! I dont want girl who has a penis,..specially yours... I dont want a girl with your mind either
