whats the best way of breaking up with some one??

with out hurting them anyone advice?

 

I reckon light up one of 'em spliffs and let Mary Jane do the talking.



Seriously though idk sorry I can't be of more help

 

i'm not sure.you can try and get serious about it and talk it through with him.why you don't want to be together and what not.and hopefully he'll understand

 

Just say you're fucking his best friend.

 

oh man only if i didnt have random UA.....damn school

 

Fucking genius.

 

i couldnt hurt some one like that not even if i hated them....hummm but thanks

 

well it's hard not to hurt them unless it's mutual that you both want to seperate, but even then it's still bound to hurt

 

there isnt an easy way. break ups are not supposed to be easy. you are going to hurt them no matter what you say. just try to say it in the nicest possible way.

PS. You're 14, I doubt they will be hurt THAT much it cant be that serious of a relationship....

 

yes but you don't know how deep of a relationship it might be

 

hah i remember my relationships at 14.. not much of relationships really...

 

well yes.....a year is kind of long for "just a 14 year old"
just cuz i'm young doesnt mean i'm young and stupid...

 

drummer don't let anyone tell you you're 'too young' for anything
you and the person you are with have a mind and a soul and a heart, these things don't magically appear when you turn 18

 

very true

 

ok so i think if you realy cant stand this person break up w/ him. If you still have ligering eelings and hes just kinda on your nerves talk him into an open relationship thats what I did and lifes been much better

 

Or just tell him its over. You won't make it painless, at least make it brief.

 

there is no nice way to break up with someone

 

Facing rejection like that at a young age can sometimes course problems but anyway what do I know, I think my IQ is very low.

@ drummer --- But my advice to you is to tell him calmly maybe on his own. I hope you work out what you’re going to do and it turns out well. I am sorry I could not give you proper advise I guess I am not that good at the advise thing.

 

when you are younger, its easier to face rejection. yes, its still hard. but that saying "you're young, you'll find someone else" is very true.

 

you could always try the old fashioned, "It's not you, it's me" bullshit...haha