And I can't agree more with that. I love my mum, because she's just, ehm, understanding (or at least tries to understand), but she won't let me do anything I want and I'm glad it ain't so, even though sometimes it feels stupid - they still know more than I do, but that doesn't mean they're always right. I don't get on with my dad as good as I do with my mum, as his looks on the world are way different than mine are - he's conservativ-ish (if that's the word?) and well, we'll just argue over things, but I'm thankful, coz he could be way worse and he still loves me - even though he'd love me more if I was 'normal' (short hair and such). Oh, well, I'm in a quite nice family, I guess I can learn lots from my parents, even though they might not always be right. And I believe parenting is one of the most difficult things to do... Love, Borut
Why do you have to be such a cocksucker? I was just talking about my parents, and I was just saying unless there's a good reason, hating your parents shouldn't be perceived as cool. You're utterly pathetic, you know that? I feel so sorry for you. Bashing me because I love my parents, and you have trouble with yours. That's not my fault. I think you're angry at the wrong person. I love you anyway, though. I throw good karma your way.
No, no, I said that when was it cool to hate your parents because she said it's like it's cool to hate your parents. I just said that I don't think it is. And you didn't miss it, because I never said it. I don't speak for everyone.
Terminal: Yeah, uh, I dunno why, but there's something herre, unless every kid at school had horribly abusive/neglegent parents. I mean, everyone says how much their parents suck and complain about them, never anything about how they house and feed them and care for them or anything, it's always about how "Oh, my mom's such a psycho. She wouldn't let me go out the other night, and when she did she wanted me be back by 2am. Stupid bitch, she can't control me" and all that kind of crap, and I just want to harm people when they totally disrespect them like that.
I notice that too, though I can't say I haven't been pissed at my mom before. I've never hated her. I think my mom just needs to mellow out...hit the pipe. She works too much. My dad's very chill, he's a stoner. All of my friend's dads are too. They all used to smoke together. Is that an out of the ordinary situation?
oh, i thought you wrote that people who dont like their parents are assholes. I dont think its cool to dislike parents, but I hate my dad. I have my reasons, fuck my dad. And fuck you too.
Yeah, some parents really do suck ass and don't deserve children, but for the most part, parents nowadays are pretty decent. Not like 30 years ago, anyway, when parents could beat their children and it would be normal and get away with it. Yeah, my parents piss me off sometimes (like when they make me put on shoes or else she won't take me somewhere or making me change my clothes for specific places), but I gotta say I couldn't ask for more (And Terminal: Sigh. You can'ty call someone a cocksucker and then say "I throw good karma your way", man.)
i love both of my parents but i can honestly say i only respect one of them. the other one does not deserve my respect
maybe if my parents thought with common sense we wouldnt have so many problems i dont know how such a smart child (me), came from them, it really boggles my mind!
I can refute that. Parents these days have the opposite problem. They SPOIL the hell out of there kids. I don't know how many times I've heard parents say "Well, I love them so I'll buy them whatever they want." I'm not for beating the hell out of your kids, but sometimes firmness is needed. Just cause you don't spank doesn't mean you have to be a pussy when it comes to discipline.
True, therer are also parents that treat their kids like royalty. But there are also many horrible parents that I know. There's a mixture of both.
I dont think any parents should hit their kids ever. There are many other ways to discipline your kids. My parents were court ordered to take a class on other ways, like holding a box of books when your kids dont listen. I think it should be mandatory for all future parents to take a class like that before they have a kid, that would prevent so many problems.
Strawberry said that it shouldn't come to violence when disciplining, but they shouldn't just shrug it off either.
there needs to be more discipline this i agree on, and certain kids need to have more respect for their parents, if their parents respect them too. I love my mom more than anything even though she doesnt understand or try to understand half the shit in my life or respect most of my ways, but my dad i give him no respect whatsoever for he has never done the same for me. also it would do some parents good if they stopped getting off on the fact that they were in the "authority" figure while others need to realize they are the authority figure I'm done.