I had my first orgasm ahhhhhhh!!!!!!

Wow so this is what happens to a person who doesn't have an orgasm until they reach 24.

That's really dangerous. We need some kind of orgasm-awareness campaign or something... for public safety, if nothing else.

 

congrats on ur first orgasm

i can sort of sympathize with you in a way.. i mean, i've had orgasms... but like, im the only person who's given me one..

i can't figure out why, but no guy i've ever been with has ever been able to get me off... and its not that i'm sleeping with the wrong guys.. the sex is good, but i think that i'm giving themtoo much foreplay and they're not giving me near enough.. but i'm kinda shy in the bedroom, so im not sure how to go about asking for something more or different without making the guy feel like an asshole..

 

hah all turned out wel he left a very sweet phone message and I called back and got his voicemail. im just scared of being screwed over of being misled of fucking up mysef. argh

 

it was nothing to do with physicalities or even talents just feeling so comftrable in my own skin with him and him being so sweet with me with no expectations.

 

i don't like a lot of forplay and it turns a lot of guys off. i need lube to get off too. my inside is of normal size but i have a small big of unbroken stubborn thick hymen towrds the back of my thingie and it makes sex painful a lot without lube,

 

congrats!

 

hrmmmmmm he sent me orchids today...very sweet but the reality of the situation is it was a very short chapter in my life that as ended-not feasible nor practicle. I'm too fucked up and I need somone who's less fucked up them me lol.

 

How old is the guy?

 

congrats i guess. i have an orgasm like everday. sometimes i WONT even get up in the morning unless i have one. self induced or not. they feel fucking good. im so glad im still young and can have multiple ones in a day depending on my mood.. shit if i really like a girl i will fuck her all night long. but that hasnt happened in a while. just thought i'd share

 

Yes it's just as safe and could be just as effective for women as for men. I say could be cos it does not work on all women but certainly does for some. I believe it stimulates circulation to the genitals so it works the same for a clit as on a penis. Women may have other non-physiological issues and in those cases viagra won't be effective.

What i wanna know is if lynsey can now achieve orgasm without viagra and what differences there may be in difficulty, intensity or number of orgasms. Hope she keeps us posted.

 

Unfortunately it's not all that uncommon for a woman to have her first O in her twenties or even later. I've read somewhere that only half of 20 year old females have ever experienced the O, that's cos of inexperience of both men and women at that age.

but yeah i often think there should be a campaign on it, perhaps have it incorporated into sex ed already in schools. Teenagers should be taught:
a. that it's important for girls to enjoy themselves too, so many boys are just selfish in bed and then later complain how hard it is to get laid, not enough receptive females.
b. that intercourse is not the usual way to bring a girl to climax
c. how to perform cunninlingus

I didn't have my first O until i was 21, 2 years after i first became sexually active, all the unreciprocated sex up til that time has affected a great deal how i felt about men, so yeah it is dangerous.

 

..No orgasms by yourself, even?

 

I gave one of my exes her first orgasm when she was 32. She had sex with a few other guys before she met me and said they never really made her feel much of anything when they were having sex. I gave her her very first orgasm by licking her clit-it really opened up a new world for her sexually-she said she had just been kind of perpetually horny/unsatisfied until I started making her come-she loved having the orgasms so much that she would lay on her back and pull the hood of her clit back to expose the head and say,"please, PLEEZE" she wanted to be licked so bad. I loved the fact that I could satisfy her and make her happy, make her feel those explosions in her belly, watch her stomach heave with her contractions-she'd curl up next to me and we'd go to sleep, happy and satisfied. Those were the good old days.

 

VERRRRRRRRRRRRRY well said. i didn't have my first orgasm (from another person) until i was twenty.