hey everyone i need some advice.. heres the story i have liked this girl for 2 years but didnt say anything late last year, where she told me she felt the same. since then, things were going pretty well and we have had alot of fun (not fooling around fun). the only thing is she is really indecisive when it comes to relationships and as it turns out her and this other guy have been interested in each other although i knew about this since like october. she had told me a few weeks ago that him and her werent going to be anything and she was going to have to break it off completely and just be strictly friends with him. anyways, this past weekend i had a party at my house with a bunch of people, including her and this guy. i found them a few times through out the night being close (his arm around her although when she saw me she pushed him away). i decided last night to call her and tell her i needed to either have her completely or not at all, that if she still wanted to pursue anything with me she had to forget this other guy. she gave me some spiel about how much she likes me, but how she likes the other guy too and just cant decide what to do, so i broke it off and told her that we shouldnt do anything anymore did i make a mistake? i feel like complete shit now, i really like this girl. thoughts?
well i must say i think u did a good thing. U cant let her play like that... If she's interested in you she will probably leave the other guy completely and tell u about it so u can give it a try. In the meantime try not to think of her that much, keep urself busy with stuff u like and whenever u see her try to be as nice as u can to let her see u're a great guy and then make it hard for her to forget about you.
Yes, it was the right move! She needs to realize that she can't have her cake and eat it too. And the fact that she is fuckin' with both of your emotions is just wrong! Move on - there are others out there that will enjoy only you!
thats actually kind of a problem; i go to a very small catholic school and this is the only girl that i like that isnt already dating some guy... pretty good situation
I encountered this quite often I think it just has alot to do with them just being young. Maybe what she did or what she is doing is enough to overcome your desire for her.
at 16 i wouldn't take the serious dating thing too serious ........you will change and she will change and the next thing you know ,what attracted you to her and her to you will probably not be there in a few years anyways .go out and enjoy life
i think you definitly made the right choice. seriously, if you hadnt of done this, your misery would have only lasted longer, and who knows if she would have ever really decided. obviously shes a confused girl who is afraid of commitment, which is fine, but it just means a relationship isnt what she needs right now. you seem very respectable, and there are MANY girls who want JUST that. good job.
