Just curious, but where does a guy go to find females? I mean some people tell me parties, which is cool but I dont get invited to much. Some people say the mall, which is cool but not really my type of girls. Some people tell me clubs, but I dont dance. HelP!
Don't go looking for women, believe me. Its much better when they find you, because it usually means they like you. Be involved in groups that share your interests, tahts always a great way to meet people. Parties are bad because they're mostly one-night-stand girls, and I doubt you want that. Clubs can be the same, too. But don't just "cruise for chicks". It doesn't work 99% of the time. Just go about your life as usual, and you might find a good one, and they might find you, who knows! That's the best advise I can give ya, sorry!
sounds like the best advince anyone can give, i never look for em, it seems like when your almost about to give up, a groovy chic just pops up...
Dalee my friend, No offense guys, but don't listen to these people who tell you to try not doing anything... girls are everywhere, you just have to use a little finesse. Some places girls are more open to being 'met' rather then just being bothered by some jerk while their busy, but that doesn't mean you can't pick up girls anywhere, the mall, the post office, funerals... you just have to tailor your approach. Clubs aren't for novices, but my advice is learn to dance. Mall's are fine, but theres no real type to 'em, girls need socks too right? malls and clothing stores and places are definatly great places to practice talking to women... try casually flirting with girls who are paid to talk to you, like girls at gap who'll always tell you you look great in a sweater. This is great to build confidence, and trust me, its all about confidence, especially the confidence to fuck up a couple dozen times before you find a cool girl. It happens to the best of us. :H There are tons of places that are great for meeting girls, museums, old book stores, yoga classes, any kinda org's meetings that attract mostly women *cough* (PETA), health clubs. Use your imagination, and you'll find women everywhere.
