Anyone like being openlly affectionate with your girlfriend/boyfriend?... I love it...just holding my girlfriend's hand, or cuddling her at the busstop or gazing into her eyes with that love filled sparkle in which she placed in them. I especially love the reactions of people when i kiss her in a crowded place...teeheeeee *gets all giddy* that is, if i'm paying attention to their reactions... A lot of people find it cute, others, disturbing, some will pull their kids closer to them or make a scowl. Mwhahaha!!! I love celebrating love!!! And i want the world to knowwww!!!!
yes, I also love that but we never kiss or do obvious things like that cause it socially unacceptible if you're gay. but i would love too... we hold hands, look at each other with love, hug sometimes..
Hehehe in my last relationship, I loved doing thatWe'de purposely freak ppl out some days when we were boredand other times just hold hands/link arms/whatever. I love it, it feels totally amazing
im usually not one for PDA's unless it's reaaaaaaaaalllllllllllllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyy speical. i dunno, just me.
This whole thing covers a big period of time but I'll try to have it make sense & not too long. Earlier in life I wouldn't do much more in public than hold hands put arm around a partner or maybe a quick kiss. When I first realized I was bi I got even more shy about this. Possibly the same reasons that Bonky mention, I don't know for sure. In fact when I went out with my first male that I loved & had sexual relationships with as we were chatting in a park he told me that he wasn't into public displays. I was quite relieved & told him that I was the same. Cut ahead to last year when I broke out of the closet again & had that great fling with him again we were all over each other in that same park, other parks, around town, whenever we felt like it. It was sooo great! We both put that silly feeling behind us in the years that have past. I haven't had a steady guy since him but I still am not shy about showing affection with who I am with at the time.
It's so liberating as well. I love seeing it, in couples...and experiencing it. Perhaps i'm just in that romantic state of mind...but, i've been with my girlfriend for so long now , and i've fallen in love with her over and over again...I feel the need to share her amazingness with the world, other times I want to keep her all to myself... So i suppose it depends on our mood also, at times we will be shouting our love for one another accross the heavens, other times, we will whisper it quietly enough, so only the other can hear... awwwww! *prances around waving my happy queer wand and spreading magical love dust around*
so what if it's socially unacceptable! don't let that stop you from spreading the love! who cares what those people think? if they would have a problem with that i wouldn't want them to like me! as gandhi said,
sheesh... i really like bein close to my bf's but Scotland is still quite homophobic sometimes so it can be quite shite.. Even one of my bf's best friends (a fag hag) had a problem with us just holding hands cos it was getting attention (it was 6 in the morning and there were about 10 people in the whole city centre @ the time) like.. what sort of friend is that?. if im a bit pissed or munchin then i tend to be a bit more relaxed but you always run the risk of getting chased home by a bunch of neds.. it's not like im getting off with them, 2 guys neckin in the street is still really taboo and im not that into suckin someones face off in the street but cummmon.. i just wanna be close to my man.
In some ways I kind of envy homosexual PDAs. I think it would be cool to be a rebel simply by kissing the one I loved and getting Republicans to cringe at the sight. Also, if someone tried to gay bash you, you'd have an excuse to beat their ass legally.
Oh, I love PDAs. I used to constantly be all over my ex-g/f in public. If people can't smile at and accept love in public, well then, they're just bonkers.
"so what if it's socially unacceptable! don't let that stop you from spreading the love! who cares what those people think? if they would have a problem with that i wouldn't want them to like me!" I wish I could do that but here,in my home town, that's totally unacceptible.I can't imagine what would happen if my mom gets that information.she would kill me. on the other side, my girlfriend has a boyfriend (he knows about us) and he doesn't want anyone else to know.also she's a school teacher so that is also a problem. short: the society would kick us out of town. p.s. you can also be beaten up by some shitasses...
aww that's terrible! not only that you'd be completely screwed if people found out, but also the fact that you have to share your girl with someone. you might be happy with that, i don't know what yer like really but you deserve to have someone all to yourself. anyway, as for me i'm all for pda's, i don't like to hardcore makeout in public but holding hands or putting my arm around her is just a given.
Groping and cuddling are a different story..there's a thick line between what's acceptable in public and what's not..., no matter what a person's sexual orientation is..
You do get a couple of funny looks holding hands, but damn, it feels good, and hey, all the straight kids are doing it! So why the fuck not?
