Ok, I wouldnt normally post in this forum, or ask advice about this sort of thing, but I dont know what to do. A couple of months ago My GF of 2 years and I broke up. So I saw her last night, and she wanted to get back with me... I use drugs recreationally, which she disagrees with. I still love her very much, but is it just going to be harder for both of us if we get together again? Do I forget about her and try to move on? Or do I do everything I can to get her back? I know someones already tried to kiss her etc. AHHH! Fucking relationships. Any advice is greatly appreciated. NOFX1422
Marijuana daily, and psychedelics mainly, although not more than once every 2 weeks or so, closer to once a month. I dont do heroin, and shit like that.
i think she cares for u because of the fact that drugs are bad and shit but well if u want her back try talking to her and telling her that u're not leaving the drugs, so if she can deal with it then u can get back-. thats what i would do.
maybe you should try to ditch the drugs. like really, try. everyone you meet in the future (except maybe another druggie) is going to ahve a problem with this bad habit, so you mind as well just kick it to the curb. good luck
An ex is an ex for a reason. She isn't going to change her views...and chances are, neither will you. If drugs are really that important to you, then you need to find someone more compatible and who either: A) does drugs as well or B) is openminded and doesn't care what you do with your body. I switch around from A) and B). I don't do drugs often...probably twice in the last three months...and I don't care if the person I'm with does it. Although, if it goes to an extreme and you're using it as a coping mechanism...then there's a problem that needs to be addressed within yourself. And smoking everyday? Doesn't that get a little expensive???
Ditching the drugs isnt really an option, as Im studying chem and pharmacology. And as for smoking every day being expensive, a close friend of mine has quite strong family ties to marijuana, so i get quite a large amount for cheap. I have cut down on drug use over the last few months tho, not for her but myself. I guess Ill just play it by ear and see what happens. I dont think shell accept it, although she was aware of it at the time we got together. Who knows, I dont want to get back with her if in a couple of weeks shes just gonna freak out about it and leave me again.
