marriage

Ya hear that, Brian????

Most women will tell you marraige is nowhere near like that.

 

oh wow! That's only a week or so after my cousins wedding, I hope the planning and suchlike is going well!

 

And most of their marriages end in divorce. So maybe they're wrong. *shrugs*

 

I want a Fiance, you get the serious relationship, and a cool title and if anything were to go wrong no messy divorce... if i do meet the right woman i hope to set the wedding date around 3006

 

Hey! My brother is getting married August 5, too! haha

 

Yup. I know a lot of people who are divorced...and everybody saw it coming but them....I begged my guy friend not to marry the girl he kept breaking up with...he ended up cheating 2 months into it, lost a ton of respect from people, and is now married to the girl he cheated with...(btw, the first wedding was a HUGE outdoor fairytale wedding $$$$$)

Just for Irongoth... My marriage is a great partnership...I am home with the kids, I do everything I can to save money, my man has clean clothes and hot lunches at work...I take awesome care of him. He works, and takes care of the major things like the car and home repairs.

HHB...I have found my soul mate....what is wrong with marrying him? And we do feel blessed, every day. We know what we have is special and rare.

 

You and your hubby sound exactly like my hubby and I.

 

And that's what I want for Brian and I. I don't want to "use" him. I want to take care of him, and know that he's taking care of my needs, if I can't meet them myself.

Right now, I'm making sure he's got clean clothes and warm lunches so he doesn't go out and eat nasty fast food every day. Hell, I'm learning how to cook in a completely different style for him (I'm southern, very unhealthy cooking!). And it's reciprocated when he cuddles me when preggo hormones drive me completely beyond sanity or when he reminds me to eat because I'm horrible about remembering that, or when he makes sure that I have good food because my blood sugar is low.

I don't use the term soulmates lightly. I feel that's a strict term to be used in very rare situations, but Brian and I are connected at the soul in some way, I think. And it's a very special thing. Anyone that's found the same is very lucky.

 

Awww, sounds like you and Brian have a great relationship! Best wishes for your future together!

{{{Hugs}}}