how do you people about sharing a free physical expression without a relationship or commitment. i believe that physically expressing your love for someone or something isnt something that is dirty or wrong, or should only be shared between two people. the main problem with permiscuity is jealousy which can cause problems, but im not the jealous type. i believe anyone should have the freedom to express themselves with someone else in whatever way they choose unhindered by other circumstances. we are all essentially the same, to not wish that connection on other people, or to resent that, is to not wish that same connection upon myself. i believe that physical expression, if your heart is into it, and even if not, is a beautiful thing that should be shared. what are your views on physical intimacy, emotional intimacy, commitment, and relationships?
I could care less who others fuck. And occasionally beer overtakes me at a party or bar and I bring someone home. But I wouldn't recommend it.
honestly... to me sex is such a sacred, personal and important thing I can only really share it with someon who I care about. I tried having a casual relationship with someone and i ended up just really bitter about it, and regretful. Not something I plan on doing again, no matter how crazy my hormones are getting. For me... sex is sacred and I can't just share myself that way with anyone. It requires a good strong relationship and trust
That's what happen in the 60's.. the dudes wanted to have sex with all the women and have an ole lady too, but the women wanted one man and family.. I belive the dudes took way advantage over the situation and they got so full of them selves that they lost the meaning of what freedom was really about.. and it wasn't suppose to be about sex or sexual freedom, that's a mans game to trick us... MHO sh
pssshaw, haha, thats to saw that all women want to have just one person that they hold sacred and above all the rest. come on now, haha. but i definteatly understand where you are coming from, but i dont believe that it was just a male-driven idea for so that we could sleep with mulitple women, although many people did take advantage of that, and unfortunatly, of women. anyone else have an opinion? i would love to hear it
At 16 you could hardly have the experience to know the difference between a woman and a girl. Yes Gate they were experts at it, they played the game well, you can see the evidence in all the fatherless children from that era. The Single Mothers waiting on the steps every 1st of the month for the mailman to bring them their welfare checks and foodstamps bc the 'daddys' were laying on their asses guzzlin' booze and doin' drugs or your sister. If they could identify the fathers at all. That's what sexual freedom was, man's fondest dream, to screw every woman they meet. There are always exceptions to the rule, I am speaking in general, from what I saw and experienced.
lol... I realize it wasn't your intent, but that basically reads as "I want peoples opinions. No, your opinion isn't right, I disagree with it, I don't want your opinion I want ohter peoples" *sigh* when you ask an open-ended question, you will inevitably get positions/thoughts you disagree with. Not to mention neither you nor I lived during the time that shameless was talking about.
i apologize, i didnt mean for it to sound that way. i value your opinion as i value my own and everyone else's. i truely am sorry that you got the impression that i felt that your opinion wasnt "right" or "correct", i dont think that at all. and i am glad that your replied, and just because i dont agree entirely, because i do agree with you on some aspects, and i see where youre coming from. i didnt mean that your opinion wasnt valid or as valid in any way. i apologize and i appreciate your responding.
i am sorry for all of the women that experianced that and that you had to witness that. i understand that there are many problems with the concept of free love ad i thank you for sharing them with me. but i believe that the concept of free love is not necessarily unrealistic. with empathy, understanding, and the practice of safe sex or absintence from sex, i believe that the concept of "free" love can be rewarding. i value your opinion and thank you for it, regardless of whether i agree with it or not, and im not saying that i disagree. i do think it is horrible that so many women have to struggle to survive and raise a child by themselves. but this doesnt necessarily have to go hand in hand with the practice of free love. i am thankful for you making me aware of that problem with the concept of free love. and i appreciate your opinion and i value it. thank you for repling
actually they did do my sister.She did end up with a good man who raised her son and unfortunatelyalso buried him a couple of years ago.Men like women will take advantage of any situation but it does seem it's always the woman who pays the price.Babies are good though and i've seen a rising number of boys become men by rising to their responsibility.They're my slaves at work.I wouldn't count on it though,most do run.It's hard to get good slaves.
