I just don't want to be her friend anymore!

I didn't know hwere to put this so I thought best in here.

Well in grade 8 my and this other girl hated each other! And for a while in grade 9. But we started hanging out and we became friends. But now I just can't take it anymore. She says mean comments that I put up with. She aways gets jelouse when I hang out with other people. When Im not home or my mom doesn't answer she will call back on Private caller thousands of times. She denies it. She will make up storeis and say she has lots of friends... When I don't ask or even care. She wanted to come to my school cause she didn't have many friends. And they wouldn't let her because she lived to far. Now she is moving up here to where I live... so close that she is loking at houses down the street. I was okay with that... well not okay, but I just kind of ignored what she was doing. But last night when she came over me, her, and my mom where talking. I don't know how we got into the cvonversation, but she said to my mom " "me" and "my brother" look like my dad, and "my other sister" looks like my mother"....at the end she adds "no offence". Now I guess I started talking over her and I didn't hear but my mother did and she told me today. Never the less for warned me about her long in advance! But that was the last straw!!!!! I'm sick of her and her bullshit! And putting down my sister was the last straw!!!! But I don't know what to do now! My mom said to just avoid her she'll get the point! But how can I avoid her? She freaking moving up here!!! She will call non stop on private caller! I know this may sound pathtic but I really can't stand her she obbessive over my life and it is odd and annoying!

So please tell me what I should do!
Thanks for taking time of your life wasting it reading my problem!!!!

 

Sounds like she has a psychological disorder. I had a "friend" like this in grade 11. She quicklly turned into a stalker. Try making more distance for yourself, but be aware, you won;t be able to get away easily.

 

Yeah she does have a disorder. OMG thats messed.... Well I have an offer to go to a private school... MAybe that will help me to get away=S

 

Yeah maybe
Either way it can be done. I "escaped" by not answering the phone for six months and "going" to another city for school. I didn;t leave town, but my mother is an exceptionaly good liar.

Good fortunes

 

Just tell her, flat out. It's always the best way.

I'm not saying be mean to her. Just tell it like it is.

You think she's a nice person and all, but she's smothering you, calling you all the time and wanting to hang out with you all the time. And also, there are a couple things which bother you, like the mean comments. And that you want to hang out less often and not get calls from her all the time, (please), because too much of anything is bad.

And if she has a problem with the truth because she has a disorder or something ... that's for her to deal with.

 

Yeah it sounds like you just need to have a discussion with her.

 

I told her! She basically denyed everything she ever did. But thats okay. SHe won't be calling me...or moving anymore apperently. Thank "god" even though she deyned she was only moving cause I did. Anyways thanks for your guyz help it was really helpfull!! Thanks =D

 

Oh my gosh! I told this girl I don't want to be her friend anymore. ANd she emailed me bakc today. It kind of scared me...it basically went on to say how she understands she is bad...but she kept telling me she loved me. Which kind of freaked me out. It wasn't exspresed either the right way or she just ment it like how it sounded. Because she sounded like we where a couple. Im freakin scared of her, like I knew she was obessive but holly crap =(

 

Well maybe let people important to you know what's going on. Stress that they don;t ned to do anything, but yeah, somone of board should know about this. Make it clear in future that you were never a couple, and that you're sorry if her feelings were hurt or there was a misunderstanding. But make sure you keep your distance.

 

i have the same kind of problem

for like 5 years this girl has always bugged me. i first decided to try to be her friend because she didnt have any. i thought that was kind of fucked up. but as i got to know her, i realized WHY she didnt have friends. she is one of those annoying clingy bitchy type of person.
so here i am 5 years later. she is finally leaving me alone. HOW DID I DO IT?!
well, i just sort of ignored her. she would say hi to me in a hallway, i'd look right through her. if somehow she got my attention and started to talk to me, i would be totally not interested. basically i was a total asshole. (dont judge). i am normally a pretty nice guy, but i was desperate. but i worked.
i dont know your personality, but maybe try that.
i am pretty sure she hates me now...yay ^_^

 

Story of my X gf except she has lots and lots of friends

cept there in her head
she even trys to put them on the phone and talk to me but its just her


just make up a gay fight for somethin stupid and say i neeeeever want to be freinds again