aright, im going to vent a little here, but i fanyone has any good solutoins too thatd be great i just started seeing this guy, im really into him, i think hes amazing in a lot of ways. but... he also acts really childish sometimes. the other night he just shut down, turned into this sarcastic/snide person because his freidns were making fun of him a litte (just jokingly, yknow, like freinds do). i cant handle that sort of shut down, not for more than a few minutes, it makes me so angry. and hes supposed to meet a relly good freind of mine 2morro but he was all "look at how exicted i am" with this blank, grumpyish look in his face. i mean, i was all excitde to meet his friends, why cant he at lesat play nice when thinkign abut meting mine???? hes normally so kinda nd fnny and cute, but this just popped up ysterday. then agin, weve onle been datign for a mutnh an da bit. we r both in ur 20s btw, so its not like were still in igh schol where this stuff is fairly normal or aceptabel is this sumthin i just have to put upwith 2 date him, r is it sth i can change???
You can't change people. If that's how he is, that's how he's always going to be. It's a personality trait. And those are hard to break.
Yeah, I definitely agree. It's all about deciding if it's something you can live with. Just don't settle for less than you really want .
EXACTLY. DON'T settle! Decide what you want in a mate, and stick to it. BE PICKY! There will always be someone out there that is exactly what we want. It's just a process of finding them.
Listen to your gut feeling!!! You are fortunate he showed his true self early and wise to realize that.
or at least they will have faults you can live with - nobody's ever gonna be 'perfect'. well, except maybe me.... but i'm only perfect for my hubby. and don't be in a hurry.
